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Mia Kalin "steps" away from sport

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  • 2025 U.S. Championships – 11th
  • 2024 Tallinn Trophy – WD
  • 2024 Cranberry Cup International, Junior – 3rd
  • 2024 U.S. Championships – 8th
  • 2024 Pacific Coast Sectional Singles Final – 3rd
  • 2023 Kings Cup International, Junior – 1st
  • 2023 Junior Grand Prix (Japan) – 8th
  • 2023 Pacific Coast Sectional Singles Final, Junior – 5th
  • 2022 Junior Grand Prix (Poland 2) – 4th
  • 2022 Junior Grand Prix (Czech Republic) – 4th
  • 2022 U.S. Championships, Junior – 6th
  • 2022 U.S. Championship Series, Junior (Henderson, Nev.) – 2nd
  • 2021 Junior Grand Prix (Poland) – 6th
  • 2021 Junior Grand Prix (Slovakia) – 7th
  • 2021 U.S. Championships, Junior – 8th
  • 2021 U.S. Championship Series, Junior – 5th
  • 2020 U.S. Championships, Junior – 13th
  • 2019 Asian Open, Advanced Novice – 2nd
  • 2020 Pacific Coast Sectional Final, Junior – 2nd
  • 2019 Pacific Coast Sectionals, Novice – 5th
  • 2019 Central Pacific Regionals, Novice – 3rd
  • 2018 Pacific Coast Sectionals, Juvenile – 7th
  • 2018 Central Pacific Regionals, Juvenile – 2nd
 

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She didn't even make it out of juniors due to the new rules that were supposed to lengthen careers not have 17 year olds quitting due to the physical and mental toll:(. USFS needs to do better, Glenn has her ongoing mental health struggles, Liu abruptly quit at 16, Tennell quit at 15 due to the mental toll of the sport.

There aren't that many skaters compared to Russia, Japan, China, but so many high profile skaters burn out quickly or suffer with mental illness. Let's hope USFS can give all the moral and financial support she requires since it seems she is yet another broken skater in a broken system:(.

Poor Kalin tried hard to push the sport forward with her quad, but I always read so much negativity about her doing so. The e-bullying of her (I'm thinking of a social media platform beginning with r and ending in t that e-bullied her constantly) could have only contributed to the pain she felt:(.
 
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She didn't even make it out of juniors due to the new rules that were supposed to lengthen careers not have 17 year olds quitting due to the physical and mental toll:(.
Would it have been any better if she had one or two Senior seasons and then quit? And the competition in Seniors would have been no easier, I don't even know if she would have gotten the GP host spot in 2023/24 or 2024/25, considering who else would have been Sr eligible under the old age rules.
USFS needs to do better, Glenn has her ongoing mental health struggles, Liu abruptly quit at 16, Tennell quit at 15 due to the mental toll of the sport.
USFS needs to do better, sure, but so does every single federation, even more, humanity has to do better. Emotional abuse is widespread and not taken seriously enough. Amber's mental health struggles come from a different place and are being treated by professionals (and she also never gave up). Alysa took time off to fall in love with the sport again, which is a very healthy, mature and good decision to be able to make (instead of trying to force yourself to keep going like Yulia, for example). And Bradie never quit, she won bronze at Novice Nationals at 15, and pewter at Jr Nationals at 16, and is still competing at 27.
There aren't that many skaters compared to Russia, Japan, China, but so many high profile skaters burn out quickly or suffer with mental illness.
Do more skaters suffer, or are they just more vocal about their suffering and have less incentive/pressure to keep going if they can't anymore? There are also tons of skaters in Russia, Japan, China who "fell off" and were never heard of again, but isn't it possible that a) people have a harder time following Chinese, Japanese and Chinese domestic skating (language barrier), b) if there are more skaters, more skaters can quit without being noticeable and c) skaters in those countries often quit at an even younger age where they couldn't even be well-known internationally yet (like Daria Sarymsakova or Sofia Dzepka before they came back)?
Poor Kalin tried hard to push the sport forward with her quad, but I always read so much negativity about her doing so. The e-bullying of her (I'm thinking of a social media platform beginning with r and ending in t that e-bullied her constantly) could have only contributed to the pain she felt:(.
Except that Mia talked about emotional abuse by someone who was supposed to be a trusted adult, not about anything else. Isn't it also weird how Mia stopped jumping quads at the same time she said she was able to leave this abusive situation? Makes you wonder if it was actually her desire to push herself that hard, or if she was, as she wrote, "giving too much of [her]self away because [she was] made to believe that was the only way to succeed".
 
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Except that Mia talked about emotional abuse by someone who was supposed to be a trusted adult, not about anything else. Isn't it also weird how Mia stopped jumping quads at the same time she said she was able to leave this abusive situation? Makes you wonder if it was actually her desire to push herself that hard, or, as she wrote, "giving too much of [her]self away because [she was] made to believe that was the only way to succeed".

This is an excellent point. I'm very sad about this situation for a young athlete. She wasn't specific about who this "trusted adult" was. If it were someone at home, I'm not sure what USFSA could do about parents pushing their children.

And this is important: I'm hypothesizing it was someone at home, because she thanks her coaches for helping her. It seems unlikely she would do so if they were the culprits. But, to be very clear, I have no evidence of who this trusted adult may be - perhaps it was a former coach.
 

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I don't know that there's much the USFS can do to help or support a skater if the pressure is coming from home!
It looks like she is leaving FS because she is no longer a minor and can make independent decisions. I see lots of sport parents, who in few years will be very surprised what happened and why their kids are running away from them and sport.
 
Jumping_Bean

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This is an excellent point. I'm very sad about this situation for a young athlete. She wasn't specific about who this "trusted adult" was. If it were someone at home, I'm not sure what USFSA could do about parents pushing their children.

And this is important: I'm hypothesizing it was someone at home, because she thanks her coaches for helping her. It seems unlikely she would do so if they were the culprits. But, to be very clear, I have no evidence of who this trusted adult may be - perhaps it was a former coach.
The part about "having to grow up fast and learn to be responsible for an adult's emotions" sounds like something a lot of kids who were emotionally abused by their parent(s) would say, but I also remember how her former coach posted a video of her and was making big statements about her planning to do three quads and a triple axel at Nationals when she had already stopped working with him. Very uncomfortable situation.

(Side note, nobody was ever mad at her for jumping quads, people were mad at her coaching team for putting quads into her programs when she wasn't consistently landing all of her triples and for not giving her room for artistic development. She deserved to be more than her quads.)
 
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Well if it was her coach putting undue pressure on her.....where were her parents?
 
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Would it have been any better if she had one or two Senior seasons and then quit?
From a financial perspective, yes.
 
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From a financial perspective, yes.

Welcome to Goldenskate, post long and post often!

But I need to say financial benefits: Not so much in the US, certainly not for one or two years in seniors.:scratch2:That would probably have just cost her more money than juniors.
 
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Not so much in the US, certainly not
I meant senior vs junior prize money.
 
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I meant senior vs junior prize money.

I edited my earlier post, so I apologize for the unfinished sentence in the original.

She may have gotten more money from some comps, I agree, but it would have cost her more to train, to travel, and there is no guarantee she would have done well enough to recoup her costs.
 
Jumping_Bean

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From a financial perspective, yes.
Would it? Would she actually have received more prize money? How many international assignments would she even have received?
She wouldn't be the only skater who'd be able to move up to Seniors sooner - Both domestic rivals, like Josephine Lee, but also international rivals, like Jia Shin, would have also gone Senior at the same time as Mia.
 
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Why don't we all just be happy that she was proactive in taking a break from the sport (or whatever it will be) to get proper care for her mental health. Yes, she will be greatly missed on the ice, but I would rather have happy and healthy skaters than those doing the sport and disregarding issues. All the best for Mia.
 
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Why don't we all just be happy that she was proactive in taking a break from the sport (or whatever it will be) to get proper care for her mental health. Yes, she will be greatly missed on the ice, but I would rather have happy and healthy skaters than those doing the sport and disregarding issues. All the best for Mia.
Because the new age rule was supposed to PREVENT stuff like this from happening. Keeping the teenagers in juniors was supposed to be good for their mental health.
 
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I don't know anymore than anyone else but I don't think junior status or senior status has anything to do with this young girl's dilemma. I inferred from her post that it was pressure to skate at all............
 
4everchan

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Because the new age rule was supposed to PREVENT stuff like this from happening. Keeping the teenagers in juniors was supposed to be good for their mental health.
there are many laws out there aiming to prevent crime.... there is still crime. A new age rule will not fixallabusive behaviour.
 
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