Sarah Livingston Jay | |
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| First Lady of New York | |
| In role July 1, 1795 – June 30, 1801 | |
| Governor | John Jay |
| Preceded by | Sarah Tappen Clinton |
| Succeeded by | Gertrude Livingston Lewis(in 1804) |
| Personal details | |
| Born | Sarah Van Brugh Livingston August 2, 1756 British America |
| Died | May 28, 1802(1802-05-28) (aged 45) Bedford, New York |
| Spouse | |
| Children | 6, includingPeter,William |
| Parent(s) | William Livingston Susannah French |
Sarah Van Brugh Livingston Jay (August 2, 1756 – May 28, 1802) was an Americansocialite and wife offounding fatherJohn Jay, in which capacity she was the wife of thePresident of the Continental Congress, of theChief Justice of the United States, andFirst Lady ofNew York.
Sarah was born in 1756. She was the eldest daughter of wealthy landownerWilliam Livingston (1723–1790) and Susannah French (1723–1789).[1] Her father was an attorney who was a signer of theUnited States Constitution and later served as the first post-colonialGovernor of New Jersey during theAmerican Revolutionary War from 1776 until his death in 1790.[2]
Her paternal grandparents werePhilip Livingston, the 2nd Lord ofLivingston Manor, and Catherine Van Brugh, the only child ofAlbany mayorPieter Van Brugh (1666–1740). Her paternal uncles includedRobert Livingston (1708–1790), 3rd Lord of Livingston Manor,Peter Van Brugh Livingston (1710–1792),New York State Treasurer, andPhilip Livingston (1716–1778), who served as a member of theNew York State Senate.[2] Through her mother, she was descended fromPhillip French, the 27thMayor of New York City,Frederick Philipse, the 1st Lord of thePhilipsburg Manor, andAnthony Brockholst, an actingGovernor of Colonial New York.[2][3]
Following her wedding to Jay in 1774, she spent the early years of their marriage at her father's house in Elizabethtown, New Jersey. Her husband would visit her there when he was not serving as a state official in New York.[1] In 1779, he was appointed commissioner toSpain and Sarah joined him, moving abroad.[1]
In Spain, Sarah Livingston Jay's would receive one diplomatic visitor in her bedroom when she was too ill from morning sickness to rise.[4] In France, she would plan and host the Americans' celebration of the signing of the Treaty of Paris, albeit in absentia because she had only just given birth (in Benjamin Franklin's house) when the event took place.[5] History leaves too few traces of women, but if one's role in society smoothed the way for the diplomatic process (as Benjamin Franklin believed it did) then Sarah Livingston Jay can be credited with aiding in the ratification of theTreaty of Paris in 1783. Sarah Livingston Jay regularly attendedsalons and the Monday night dinners hosted by theMarquise andMarquis de Lafayette.[6] Participating in Parisian society was part ofBenjamin Franklin's strategy for tightening the bonds of French-American relations.[7]
Sarah Livingston Jay played her part in society so well that she was once mistaken forMarie Antoinette by the audience of a theatre in Paris, "on the entrance of the American beauty, [the audience] arose to do her homage."[8] Her social circle includedAdrienne de La Fayette,Angelica Schuyler Church,Abigail Adams,Abigail Adams Smith, andAnne Willing Bingham, and the connections forged by these linkages were crucial to future diplomatic successes (Angelica Church, for example, would assist John Jay socially when he traveled to London to negotiate what would become theJay Treaty).[9][10]
Upon returning to New York (when Mr. Jay was appointed U.S.Foreign Secretary), Livingston Jay's experiences in Europe and French language skills were applied to hosting officials from the diplomatic corps and other guests in the U.S. capital city of New York. Livingston Jay would go on to serve in her hospitality role as the wife of the firstChief Justice of the United States and First Lady of New York. In New York, "Mrs. [Elizabeth] Hamilton, Mrs. [Sarah] Jay and Mrs. [Lucy] Knox were the leaders of official society."[11] "In the society which marked the early days of the Republic, in New York, then the seat of the Continental Congress, Mrs. John Jay...was the acknowledged leader," and Sarah Livingston Jay's "Dinner and Supper list" for 1787-8 contained the names of notable men and women who were the midwives of a new nation, including: General and Mrs. Washington, Colonel and Mrs. Bayard,Alexander andElizabeth Hamilton, Dr. and Mrs. Rodgers,Elias Boudinot, Daniel Huger, and the DeLancey family.[12] An image of her handwritten list is, considered "the most famous American "society"-type document of the eighteenth century".[13] In an era when dinner tables were the nodes of social networks, when a house was not the private realm it is perceived to be now, the social capital inherent to a dinner list was tendered as political capital.
Like many of the Founding Mothers, credit for any and all of Sarah Livingston Jay's contributions as spouse to a prominent politician have been subsumed by her husband's reputation (i.e. a consequence ofcoverture).[14][15] As coverture is no longer the law of the land, however, subsuming Livingston Jay's biography under her husband's is to perpetuate history's error: "we think women were sitting around tending to the tatting or pouring tea, and it's our view of first ladies too and it's all wrong. These were very, very politically passionate women. Their letters are full of politics and they were utterly devoted to the patriot cause."[16] This misunderstanding may well have been less true in Sarah Livingston Jay's lifetime than it is today: "While denied direct participation in the political system, elite women's roles as republican wives and mothers was understood by Americans at this time as a political necessity."[17]
On April 28, 1774, Sarah marriedJohn Jay (1745–1829), a member of a prominent merchant family in New York City. He was one of seven surviving children born to Peter Jay and Mary Van Cortlandt, the daughter of mayorJacobus Van Cortlandt.[18][19] Together, John and Sarah Jay had six children:
In 1801, John Jay and Sarah Livingston Jay moved to a farm nearBedford, New York, where Sarah died in 1802.
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