Updates a few things in rule meta so the linter is happy:

• Some descriptions didn't follow the naming convention (enforce,require, etc)
• Some rules had notype, so these were set toproblem
• Some rules had norecommended, so these were set to if they are in the recommended config or not
• Message IDs have been used instead of messages

these didn't happen in CI but did error locally for whatever reason

edit:

so it turns out the eslint-plugin-eslint-plugin rules haven't been running against the rule files

for whatever reason,ast.sourceType ends up as"module" inside the plugin, so it tries to look for ESM exports and doesn't find any. so the rules never run