Work around for following issue:```Run sudo mdutil -a -i off  sudo mdutil -a -i off  sudo mdutil -X /  sudo launchctl bootout system /System/Library/LaunchDaemons/com.apple.metadata.mds.plist  shell: /bin/bash -e {0}4 files/directories removedBoot-out failed: 5: Input/output error```This can happen if spotlight has already been disabled.

16.0.0 was yanked from the macOS runners, so this will likely need cherry picking into the upcoming release branch.We've already checked everything builds fine on#19125.In a few releases we'll stop building the dylib and also therefore remove xcode as a dependency on coder/coder altogether.

Undoes a lot of the changes in5319d47Keeps the `netns.SetCoderSoftIsolation()` call, but always sets it to`true` when using a TUN device.

The sinks are already added to the logger above, so they're just getting duplicated

Continues to addresscoder/coder-desktop-macos#201Identical to the windows command, except we don't write to stdio. We're retaining the system we have for logging on macOS, where we push logs over the tunnel and use the OS logger. I've tested that a build with this command works end-to-end with my new version of Coder Desktop macOS.Also brings in the soft net isolation changes from `main` of coder/tailscale.