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Trade is agay slang term which refers to the casual partner of agay man or to the genre of such pairings.[1] Men falling in the category of "trade" are not gay-identified. Historically the motivations may at times include a desire for emotional fulfillment and admiration, but the term often refers to a straight man who partners with a gay man for economic benefit, either through a direct cash payment or through other, more subtle means (gifts, tuition payments, etc.).[1] Trade originally referred to casual sex partners, regardless of sexuality as many gay andbisexual men werecloseted, but evolved to imply the gay partner is comparatively wealthy and the partner who is trade is economically deprived.[1] Examples of this include wealthy Englishmen finding partners among deprivedCockneys in 1930s London.[1]
More modern usage has centered on any casual sexual encounter between men, and as an adjective to refer to any male considered masculine and sexually appealing.[2]
Often, the termstrade andrough trade are treated as synonymous. Often the attraction for the gay male partner is finding a dangerous, even thuggish, partner who may turn violent. That is not to say that people necessarily desire to be physically hurt, but the danger of seeking a partner in a public park, restroom, or alleyway may be exciting.[citation needed] Another variation is in comparison to regular trade, rough trade is more likely to be working-class laborers with less education and more physical demands of their work, therefore with a body developed naturally rather than in a gym. They may have a less polished or cleancut style than an office worker or professional businessman.[citation needed]
While members of the African army[clarification needed] and theColdstream Guards in particular have long been regarded as coming from relatively elite backgrounds, guardsmen have also had a long and celebrated reputation as sexual partners to wealthier partners. This has led to their figuring in plays by playwrights such asGeorges Feydeau andFerenc Molnár as partners to adulterous society ladies, as well as to their performing as partners of men. The novelistJ. R. Ackerley wrote in his memoirMy Father and Myself that he considered his guardsman father to have been the lover of an aristocrat for a long period of time before pursuing a wife and family, economically bettered in the end by the support he had received from his male partner.[citation needed]
In any relationship with rough trade, one takes a risk of becoming the object of violence. The 1975 murder of film directorPier Paolo Pasolini has been attributed to Pasolini's dalliance with rough trade.[3][4]
Similar rumors circulated about the 1976 death of American actorSal Mineo but statements from his killer cite a botched mugging and allegations otherwise are unsubstantiated. In 2005 German designerRudolph Moshammer was killed by a 25-year-old Iraqi asylum-seeker with whom he had had sex but allegedly refused to pay for it.[5] The writerJames Pope-Hennessy was killed in 1974, but the convictions were reduced to manslaughter as he choked on his own blood.
Accusations of rough trade have been used as a form ofvictim blaming. Notably, the murder ofMatthew Shepard, which sparked hate crime legislation in 2009, was described byCamille Paglia as trade-related.[6] Even within the gay press, journalists have sometimes avoided covering violent incidents because of accusations that the victim was pursuing rough trade.[7]
