Blair, born inSouthfield, Michigan, emerged from a background in legal and political involvement: both her parents were lawyers and her father was active in theU.S. Democratic Party. Blair's upbringing was predominantly Jewish. She initially pursued photography atKalamazoo College before moving to New York to become involved in the arts, graduating from theUniversity of Michigan. Blair's early career was marked by numerous auditions to land her first roles in television and film, with her breakthrough inCruel Intentions and subsequent mainstream success in projects likeLegally Blonde andHellboy.
After being diagnosed withmultiple sclerosis (MS) in 2018, she has shared her experience with the condition, contributing to her advocacy work. In 2021, Blair starred inIntroducing, Selma Blair, a documentary about her life since being diagnosed with MS. Her autobiography,Mean Baby: A Memoir of Growing Up, was published byKnopf in 2022.
Selma Blair Beitner[1][2] was born on June 23, 1972,[3] in theDetroit suburb ofSouthfield, Michigan, the youngest of four daughters of Molly Ann (née Cooke) and Elliot I. Beitner. Her maternal grandfather was the founder ofPenn Fruit and she spent a great deal of her childhood in Philadelphia.[4] Both of her parents were lawyers; her father was a labor arbitrator and was active in theU.S. Democratic Party until his death in 2012; her mother died in 2020. Her parents divorced when Blair was 23. Selma and her sister Elizabeth officially changed their surname to 'Blair'; in her memoir, Blair wrote that, following a concerted effort on the part of her father's girlfriend to derail her career, she did not speak to her father for 12 years.[5][6]
Blair's father and maternal grandfather were Jewish; her mother and her Scottish maternal grandmother were Anglican, but Selma and her sisters had a Jewish upbringing and Selma formally converted to Judaism in the second grade. HerHebrew name is 'Bat-Sheva'.[7][8][9]
At age 21, Blair moved toNew York City, where she lived atThe Salvation Army.[11] Intending to become a photographer, she attendedNew York University (NYU), and took acting classes at theStella Adler Conservatory, the Column Theater, and Stonestreet Studios. She returned to Michigan, transferred from NYU to theUniversity of Michigan and, in 1994, graduatedmagna cum laude with a triple major in photography, psychology, and English. She then returned to New York City to pursue a career in the arts.[12][13]
In 1990, during her time at Cranbrook Kingswood, Blair was involved in a production ofT.S. Eliot’sMurder in the Cathedral. She considered it a failure, but her English teacher told her not to give up; that was the first time she thought she could be an actress. In 1993 in New York, an agent discovered her in an acting class and Blair signed with her. After 75 auditions, Blair got her first acting job, a TV ad for the Theater of Virginia.[14]
Blair won her first professional role in a 1995 episode of the children's sitcomThe Adventures of Pete & Pete. In 1996, she landed her firstfeature film role in the comedyThe Broccoli Theory.[15] In 1997, she made her first appearance in a mainstream feature film, the comedyIn & Out. She auditioned six times for the role and remained on-set for several weeks, but most of her scenes were cut from the film's final version.[16]
Her first lead role was in the filmStrong Island Boys.[17] She then won the lead in the 1997 fantasy filmAmazon High. The film, which was proposed as a third show set in the Hercules and Xena mythological genre, did not air, but portions of it were used in the 2000Xena: Warrior Princess episode "Lifeblood".[18][19] She was considered for the role ofJoey Potter inDawson's Creek, a role which ultimately went toKatie Holmes.[20] She subsequently appeared in several independent and short productions, including the award-winningDebutante.[21][22]
Blair co-starred in the 2001 hit comedyLegally Blonde, portraying a preppy, snobby law student;The Hollywood Reporter found her to be a "strong presence" in her role.[30] The film topped the US box office in its opening weekend; it grossed US$96.5 million in North America and US$141.7 million worldwide.[31] She next starred as a college student having an affair with her professor in the 2001 independent dramaStorytelling. It premiered at the 2001Cannes Film Festival;SPLICEDwire cited Blair and co-starLeo Fitzpatrick for "painfully authentic performances as an emotionally insecure coed and her cerebral palsy-stricken dorm neighbor and lover".[32] In its review,View Auckland noted: "The acting, throughout, is excellent, with Selma Blair giving a mature performance that suggests better roles await her than those she's had so far."[33] Blair next appeared in the 2002 comedyThe Sweetest Thing. While the film was generally panned,[34][35] it grossed US$68.6 million worldwide. Blair appeared with her co-starts from the film on the cover ofRolling Stone and was nominated for theTeen Choice Award for Choice Movie Actress – Comedy for her work in the film.[36][37]
In 2004, Blair took on the role ofLiz Sherman, adepressedpyrokinetic superhero,[38] inGuillermo del Toro's blockbuster fantasy filmHellboy, co-starringRon Perlman. Based onMike Mignola'spopular comic book series, the film was favorably received by critics;The New York Times remarked: "Blair's heavy-lidded eyes seem to be at half mast from some lovely lewd fantasy. With her sleepy carnality and dry, hesitant timing, she is a superb foil for Mr. Perlman's plain-spoken bravado."[39]Hellboy topped the box office in the U.S. and Canada in its opening weekend, and ultimately grossed US$99.3 million.[40][41]
Also in 2004, Blair played the role of an exhibitionist dancer inJohn Waters' satirical sex comedyA Dirty Shame, alongsideTracey Ullman. The film received a mixed response;A.V. Club described the production as a "proud retreat back into the sandbox of sexual juvenilia" and a "potty-mouthed manifesto from an elder statesman of shock", while pointing out that Blair and Ullman "throw themselves headfirst into the insanity, reveling in the forfeiture of dignity, self-respect, and self-consciousness their roles demand".[42] Blair also took part on the social projectThe 1 Second Film as a producer, and was included on theFHM list of "The 100 Sexiest Women of 2004".[43][44]
2005–2011: Independent films andThe Diary of Anne Frank
From 2005 to 2007, Blair appeared in a string of independent films. In 2008, she reprised her role ofLiz Sherman inHellboy II: The Golden Army, where her character had a larger role than its predecessor.[45] The film garnered largely positive reviews from critics and became a worldwide commercial success, grossing US$160 million.[46] Blair was nominated for theScream Awards for Best Actress in a Fantasy Movie or TV Show.[47]
In 2008, Blair starred as a drug-addicted and alcoholic mother inLori Petty's independent dramaThe Poker House. It received generally favorable reviews from critics,[48][49] withThe Hollywood Reporter considering Blair's performance one of her best.[50][51]
Also in 2008, Blair accepted the titular role on theNBC sitcomKath & Kim.[52] The sitcom, which was based on the Australian television series of the same name, was canceled after one season.[53][54]
In 2012, Blair returned to television as the female lead with the premiere ofFX'sAnger Management, co-starringCharlie Sheen. She starred in 53 episodes as Dr. Kate Wales, Sheen's neurotic therapist and love interest.[55] The series premiered to mixed critical reviews,[56] but broke ratings records with 5.74 million viewers in its debut and ranks as the most-watched sitcom premiere in cable history.[57][58] Blair left the show in June 2013, during the shooting of the second season, due to disagreements with Sheen, who fired her via text message.[59][60][61][62][63]
In 2018, Blair was cast in a recurring role on theNetflix science-fiction drama seriesAnother Life; it ran from 2019 to 2021 before being canceled.[70][71]
In September 2022, Blair became a contestant onseason 31 ofDancing with the Stars but left in the fifth week of the competition because of her deteriorating health.[72][73]
In 2010, Blair posed withDemi Moore andAmanda De Cadenet for a spread inHarper's Bazaar magazine.[90] In 2012, she became the spokesperson for, and first actress to appear on, the "Get Real For Kids" campaign.[91] In the spring of that year, she releasedSB, a line of handbags and wallets which she designed.[92]
In 2010, Blair began dating fashion designer Jason Bleick; they have a son, Arthur Saint Bleick.[104][105][106] In September 2012, they announced that they had separated.[102][107]
In 2022, Blair and her ex-boyfriend, filmmaker Ron Carlson, whom she had been seeing since 2017, requested temporary restraining orders against each other, with both claiming physical abuse.[108] The order requests were mutually dismissed.[109]
Joe Biden and Selma Blair arrive to an Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) reception on October 2, 2023, at the White House
In October 2018, Blair revealed that she had been diagnosed withmultiple sclerosis in August of that year.[110] In a 2023 interview withBritish Vogue, Blair said that her symptoms had begun to manifest themselves when she was a child, and that her un-diagnosed MS had caused brain damage. As the condition worsened, she was heavily medicated, developed a dependency on alcohol and attempted suicide.[111] She was inspired to reveal the news as a way to thank Allisa Swanson, her costume designer, who had become her unofficial "dresser" for her role in theNetflix seriesAnother Life, saying that Swanson "gets my legs in my pants, pulls my tops over my head, (and) buttons my coats."[110][112] Blair wrote about her experiences with multiple sclerosis in her memoir,Mean Baby: A Memoir of Growing Up, which was published in May 2022.[113]
In June 2022, Blair became chief creative officer of Guide Beauty, a company which creates cosmetic products for those with mobility challenges.[125] In December 2022 she was chosen as one of theBBC's 100 women.[126]
In October 2023, in the immediate aftermath of theOctober 7 attacks, Blair expressed solidarity with Israel.[128] In February 2024, Blair made a comment, later deleted, on anInstagram video[129] related to the war, commenting, "Deport all these terrorist supporting goons. Islam has destroyed Muslim countries and then they come here and destroyed minds. They know they are liars. Twisted justifications. May they meet their fate."[130][131][132] The comment was criticized asIslamophobic, prompting Blair to delete it and issue a statement apologizing for her remarks.[133][134][135]
In February 2024, Blair signed an open letter by the Creative Community for Peace supporting Israel's inclusion in theEurovision Song Contest.[136]
In September 2024, Blair again expressed support for Israel and thehostages being held byHamas inGaza: "I stand with Israel. I stand with the hostages. I stand with their families — mothers, sisters, friends. These are innocent people who have been in hell and then murdered." She added that the enclave was being run by "Jihadists, the radicals, the extreme" and "terrorists".[137]
In November 2025, Blair told Israel'sYnet that October 7 was a turning point for her, convincing her to return to acting and star in an Israeli film about the hostage crisis.[138] In December 2025, Blair, who plays a hostage in the film, toldUnited Press International that the story was "not political," and added that "They're stories of human tragedy and empathy, that you want to be a part of that telling, it was one small way I could say it as an artist, not from any political front and just as a human."[139]
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