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| Born | Melissa Lou Etheridge (1961-05-29)May 29, 1961 (age 64) Leavenworth, Kansas, U.S. |
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Melissa Lou Etheridge (born May 29, 1961) is an American singer, songwriter, musician, and guitarist. Hereponymous debut album was released in 1988 and became an underground success. It peaked at No. 22 on theBillboard 200[5] and its lead single, "Bring Me Some Water", garnered Etheridge her firstGrammy Award nomination forBest Rock Vocal Performance, Female in1989.[6] Her second album,Brave and Crazy, appeared that same year and earned Etheridge two more Grammy nominations. In 1992, Etheridge released her third album,Never Enough, and its lead single, "Ain't It Heavy", won Etheridge her first Grammy Award.[6]
In 1993, she released what would become her mainstream breakthrough album,Yes I Am. Its tracks "I'm the Only One", "If I Wanted To", and "Come to My Window" all reached the Top 40 in the United States, while the latter earned Etheridge her second Grammy Award.[6]Yes I Am spent 138 weeks on theBillboard 200, peaking at No. 15,[5] and earning aRIAA certification of 6×Platinum,[7] her largest selling album to date. Her fifth album,Your Little Secret, was released in 1995 and peaked at No. 6 on theBillboard 200, her highest-charting album to date.[5] Its tracks "Nowhere to Go" and "I Want to Come Over" both reached the Top 40 in the United States.
Etheridge achieved further success with her albumsBreakdown (1999),Skin (2001), andLucky (2004). In October 2004, she was diagnosed with breast cancer, and underwent surgery and chemotherapy. At the2005 Grammy Awards, she made a return to the stage, performing a tribute toJanis Joplin withJoss Stone. Stone began the performance with "Cry Baby" and Etheridge, bald from chemotherapy, joined her to perform the song "Piece of My Heart".[8] Their performance was widely acclaimed, andIndia.Arie later wrote "I Am Not My Hair" about Etheridge.[9] Later that year, Etheridge released her first compilation album,Greatest Hits: The Road Less Traveled. A great commercial success, it peaked at No. 14 on theBillboard 200, and wentGold almost immediately.[7] Etheridge has released 16studio albums to date, the most recent beingOne Way Out (2021).[10][11]
Etheridge is known for music with a mixture of "confessional lyrics, pop-based folk-rock, and raspy, smoky vocals".[3] She has been a gay and lesbian rights activist since her public coming out in January 1993.[12] Among her various accolades, Etheridge has received two Grammy Awards (from 15 nominations), and anAcademy Award for Best Original Song for "I Need to Wake Up" from the filmAn Inconvenient Truth (2006).[13] She received theBerklee College of Music Honorary Doctor of Music Degree in 2006.[14] The following year, she was honored with theASCAP Founders Award.[15] In September 2011, she received a star on theHollywood Walk of Fame.[16]
Etheridge was born inLeavenworth, Kansas, the younger of two daughters of Elizabeth (Williamson), a computer consultant, and John Etheridge, anAmerican Constitution teacher at her alma mater,Leavenworth High School. John Etheridge died in August 1991.[17]
Etheridge began guitar lessons when she was eight.[18] She started to play in local country music groups in her teenage years and graduated from high school in 1979.[19][20] While attending college atBerklee College of Music, Etheridge played the club circuit aroundBoston. After three semesters, Etheridge decided to drop out of Berklee and move to Los Angeles to attempt a career in music.[3]

Etheridge was discovered at Vermie's, a bar in Pasadena, California. She had made some friends on a women's soccer team, and those new friends came to see her play. One of the women was Karla Leopold, whose husband, Bill Leopold, was a manager in the music business. Karla convinced Bill to see Etheridge perform live. He was impressed, and became a pivotal part of Etheridge's career.[21] This, in addition to her gigs in lesbian bars around Los Angeles, led to her discovery byIsland Records chief Chris Blackwell. She signed a publishing deal to write songs for films including the 1986 movieWeeds.[22]
After an unreleased first effort that was rejected by Island Records as being too polished and glossy, she completed her stripped-down, self-titled debut in just four days. Her eponymous debut albumMelissa Etheridge (1988), was an underground hit, and the single "Bring Me Some Water" performed well on radio and was nominated for a Grammy Award.[22]
At the time of the album's release, it was not generally known that Etheridge was a lesbian. While on the road promoting the album, she paused inMemphis, Tennessee, to be interviewed for the syndicated radio programPulsebeat—Voice of the Heartland, explaining the intensity of her music by saying: "People think I'm really sad—or really angry. But my songs are written about the conflicts I have...I have no anger toward anyone else."[23] She invited the radio syndication producer to attend her concert that night. He did and was surprised to find himself one of the few men in attendance.[24]
Etheridge's second album,Brave and Crazy, was released in 1989.[25]Brave and Crazy followed the same musical formula as her eponymous debut; it also garnered a Grammy nomination. The album peaked at No. 22 on theBillboard charts (equal to her first album). Etheridge then went on the road, like one of her musical influences,Bruce Springsteen, and built a loyal fan base.[26]
In 1992, Etheridge released her third album,Never Enough. Similar to her prior two albums,Never Enough didn't reach the top of the charts, peaking at No. 21, but gave Etheridge her first Grammy forBest Rock Vocal Performance, Female for her single "Ain't It Heavy".Never Enough was considered a more personal and mature album from Etheridge at that time. With rumors circulating around her sexuality (Etheridge was not out yet at this point), the album seemed to inadvertently address these rumors.[27]
In 1992, Etheridge established a performing arts scholarship at Leavenworth High School in honor of her recently deceased father. According to Etheridge, her father purchased her first guitar and "would come with me to bars in the area when I played because I was underage".[28]
In January 1993, Etheridge came out publicly as a lesbian. On September 21, 1993, she releasedYes I Am, which became her mainstream breakthrough album.[29] Co-produced withHugh Padgham,Yes I Am spent 138 weeks on theBillboard 200 charts and peaked at No. 15. It scored two mainstream hits: "Come to My Window" and her onlyBillboard Top 10 single, "I'm the Only One", which also hit No. 1 onBillboard's Adult Contemporary chart.Yes I Am earned aRIAA certification of 6× platinum.[7]
Etheridge earned her second Grammy forBest Rock Vocal Performance, Female for her single "Come to My Window". She also garnered two additional nominations in the Best Rock Song category for "I'm the Only One" and "Come to My Window", losing toBruce Springsteen's "Streets of Philadelphia".[30]
In 1993, Etheridge boycotted playing shows in Colorado over its passage ofAmendment 2.[26]
Also in 1994, she was honored by VH-1 for her work with the AIDS organization L.A. Shanti. During the televised occasion, she highlighted the appearance with a performance of "I'm the Only One" and a duet withSammy Hagar coveringThe Rolling Stones' song, "Honky Tonk Women."[31]

The album's fifth single, "If I Wanted To", debuted on theBillboard Hot 100 at No. 25 in February 1995 and peaked at No. 16 later that March.[5][32]
The success ofYes I Am helped increase sales of Etheridge's earlier albums. In 1995,Melissa Etheridge earned aRIAA certification of 2× platinum, whileNever Enough earned aRIAA certification of platinum.[7]
Etheridge's follow-up toYes I Am was the successfulYour Little Secret (1995). The album was not as well received by critics as Etheridge's prior recordings. Featuring a lead single of the same name,Your Little Secret is the highest-charting album of Etheridge's career, having reached No. 6 on theBillboard album charts; however, the album spent only 41 weeks on the chart. The album produced two Top 40 singles "I Want to Come Over" (Billboard No. 22,RPM No. 1) and "Nowhere to Go" (Billboard No. 40) and earned aRIAA certification of 2× platinum.[7]
In 1996, Etheridge won an ASCAP Songwriter of the Year award. She also took a lengthy break from the music business to concentrate on her family when her first two children Bailey (1997) and Beckett (1998) were born.[33][22] She also recorded "Sin Tener A Donde Ir (Nowhere to Go)" for theAIDS benefit albumSilencio=Muerte: Red Hot + Latin produced by theRed Hot Organization.[34]
Etheridge returned to the music charts with the release ofBreakdown in October 1999.Breakdown peaked at No. 12 on the Billboard charts and spent 18 weeks in the charts. Despite this,Breakdown was the only album of Etheridge's career to be nominated for aGrammy Award for Best Rock Album (losing toSantana'sSupernatural). In addition, her single "Angels Would Fall" was nominated in two categories:Best Rock Vocal Performance, Female (losing toSheryl Crow) andBest Rock Song (losing to theRed Hot Chili Peppers) in 2000. A year later, another single from the album—"Enough of Me"—was nominated forBest Rock Vocal Performance, Female (also losing toSheryl Crow). The album was certified gold by theRIAA.[7]
The year 2001 saw the release ofSkin, an album she described as "the closest I've ever come to recording a concept album. It has a beginning, middle and end. It's a journey."Skin garnered generally positive reviews with Metacritic scoring the album 73/100 from 9 reviews.[35] Recorded after her breakup with partner Julie Cypher,Skin was described as "[a] harrowing, clearly autobiographical dissection of a decaying relationship." Despite positive reviews,Skin sold less than 500,000 copies. On the Billboard charts, it peaked at No. 9 but dropped out of the Top 200 after just 12 weeks. The single "I Want to Be in Love" was nominated for theBest Rock Vocal Performance, Female (losing toLucinda Williams). The music video for the song starredJennifer Aniston.[36]
In 2002, Etheridge released an autobiography entitledThe Truth Is: My Life in Love and Music.[37]

Etheridge began 2004 with the release of her eighth albumLucky on February 10. Etheridge was now in a new relationship with actressTammy Lynn Michaels, whom she had begun dating in 2001.Lucky performed similarly toSkin, selling fewer than 500,000 copies, peaking on the Billboard charts at No. 15 and spending 13 weeks on the charts. It also garnered a Grammy nomination for Etheridge's cover of theGreenwheel song "Breathe" for theGrammy Award for Best Rock Vocal Performance, Solo (losing toBruce Springsteen).[38]
In October 2004, Etheridge was diagnosed with breast cancer. At the2005 Grammy Awards (the same ceremony for which "Breathe" was nominated), she made a return to the stage and, although bald from chemotherapy, performed a tribute toJanis Joplin with the song "Piece of My Heart". Etheridge's performance was lauded in song inIndia.Arie's "I Am Not My Hair".[9]
On September 10, 2005, Etheridge participated inReAct Now: Music & Relief, a telethon in support for the victims ofHurricane Katrina. ReAct Now, part of an ongoing effort by MTV,VH1,CMT, seeks to raise funds for theAmerican Red Cross, theSalvation Army, and America's Second Harvest. Etheridge introduced a new song specially written for the occasion called "Four Days". Thea cappella song included themes and images that were on the news during the aftermath of the hurricane. Other charities she supports include The Dream Foundation and Love Our Children USA.[39][40]
In November 2005, Etheridge appeared onThe Tonight Show with Jay Leno to perform her song "I Run for Life".[41]
Etheridge wrote "I Need to Wake Up" for the film documentaryAn Inconvenient Truth, which won theOscar forBest Original Song in 2006. The song was released only on the enhanced version of her greatest hits album,The Road Less Traveled.[42][43]
Etheridge was also a judge for the 5th annual Independent Music Awards to support independent artists' careers.[44]
In August 2006, Etheridge also produced and sang the vocal tracks on theBrother Bear 2 soundtrack, including collaborations withJosh Kelley.[45]
On July 7, 2007, Etheridge performed at the Giants Stadium on theAmerican leg ofLive Earth. Etheridge performed the songs "Imagine That" and "What Happens Tomorrow" fromThe Awakening, her tenth album, released on September 25, 2007, as well as the song "I Need To Wake Up" before introducing Al Gore. On December 11, 2007, she performed at theNobel Peace Prize Concert inOslo, Norway, together with a variety of artists, a concert which was broadcast live to over 100 countries.[46] In addition, she performed at the U.S.2008 Democratic National Convention on August 27, 2008.[47]
Etheridge was featured in UniGlobe Entertainment's breast cancer docudrama titled1 a Minute released in 2010.[48]
Etheridge performed the role of St. Jimmy inGreen Day's hitBroadway musical,American Idiot from February 1–6, 2011.[49][50]
Etheridge performed her new song "Uprising of Love" in the 2013–2014 New Year's Eve celebration in New York City'sTimes Square along with the rendition ofJohn Lennon's "Imagine" before theball drop. The single was released on iTunes on January 28, 2014.[51][52]
In 2014, she was one of the performers at the opening ceremonies ofWorldPride inToronto,Ontario, Canada, alongsideTom Robinson,Deborah Cox andSteve Grand.[53]
On July 1, 2014, she released "Take My Number", the first single from her 13th studio albumThis Is M.E.. The cover art for the album is a mosaic that includes pictures submitted by fans. Etheridge explains the album cover on her official website: "Because my fans are such a huge part of ME, and I wouldn't be ME without YOU, I took photos submitted by my fans and turned it into my album cover." The album was released on September 30, 2014.[54]
On June 9, 2015, she released a live album titled:A Little Bit of Me: Live in L.A.. It was recorded at the closing show of the U.S. leg of her This Is M.E. Tour on December 12, 2014, at theOrpheum Theater in downtown Los Angeles.[55]

On October 6, 2016, Etheridge released her 14th studio album,MEmphis Rock and Soul,[56] a covers album made of blues tracks originally recorded by blues legends such asOtis Redding,William Bell, andthe Staples Singers.[57]
On April 12, 2019, Etheridge released her 15th studio albumThe Medicine Show.[58] The first single released from the album was titled "Faded by Design".[57]
On September 17, 2021, Etheridge released a new album,One Way Out onBMG.[10][11] The album is composed of songs written in the late 1980s and early 1990s, but recorded recently with her original band, although the last two songs were recorded live at theRoxy in Los Angeles in 2002.[59]
In March 2022, Etheridge was announced as a strategic advisor for theInpink platform byGritty In Pink alongsideArlan Hamilton andLive Nation.[60]
In September 2023, Etheridge premiered her one-woman showMelissa Etheridge: My Window atCircle in the Square Theatre in New York City.[61]
Etheridge came out publicly as a lesbian in January 1993 at the Triangle Ball, a homosexual-themed celebration of PresidentBill Clinton'sfirst inauguration.[29][62] Etheridge supported Clinton's 1992 presidential campaign and since coming out, has been a gay rights activist. She is also an advocate for environmental issues and in 2006, she toured the US and Canada using biodiesel.[63]

Etheridge had a long-term partnership withJulie Cypher, and their relationship received coverage inThe Advocate, when an interview with editor Judy Wieder done in Amsterdam, "The Great Dyke Hope", was released in July 1994. In it, Etheridge answered Wieder's questions about why the couple wanted to have children: "I think one of the many fears people have about homosexuality is around children. I think that the more gay parents raise good, strong, compassionate people, the better the world will be."[64] During this partnership, Cypher gave birth to two children, Bailey Jean and Beckett.[65] Cypher became pregnant via artificial insemination using sperm donated by musicianDavid Crosby.[66] On September 19, 2000, Etheridge and Cypher announced they were separating.[67]
In 2002, Etheridge began dating actressTammy Lynn Michaels.[68] The two had a commitment ceremony on September 20, 2003.[69] On October 17, 2006, Michaels gave birth to fraternal twins, Johnnie Rose and Miller Steven, who were conceived via an anonymous sperm donor.[70][71]
In October 2004, Etheridge was diagnosed withbreast cancer. She underwent surgery[72] andchemotherapy.[73] In October 2005, in honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, Etheridge appeared onDateline NBC with Michaels to discuss her struggle with cancer. By the time of the interview, Etheridge's hair had grown back after being lost during chemotherapy. She said that her partner had been very supportive during her illness. Etheridge also discussed usingmedicinal marijuana while she was receiving the chemotherapy.[74]
In October 2008, five months after theSupreme Court of Californiaoverturned the state's ban on same-sex marriage, Etheridge announced that she and Michaels were planning to marry but were currently "trying to find the right time... to go down and do it".[75] In November 2008, in response to the passing of California'sProposition 8 banning same-sex marriage, Etheridge announced that she would not pay her state taxes as an act of civil disobedience.[76] On April 15, 2010, Etheridge and Michaels announced they had separated.[77] In May 2012, it was announced that their two-year child support battle had been settled.[78]

Etheridge supportedBarack Obama's decision to have PastorRick Warren speak at his2009 Presidential inauguration, believing that he can sponsor dialogue to bridge the gap between gay and straight Christians. She stated in her column atThe Huffington Post that "Sure, there are plenty of hateful people who will always hold on to their bigotry like a child to a blanket. But there are also good people out there, Christian and otherwise, that are beginning to listen."[79]
In 2013, Etheridge calledAngelina Jolie's choice to have a doublemastectomy to avoid the possibility of breast cancer a "fearful" choice. Etheridge told theWashington Blade in an interview that "my belief is that cancer comes from inside you and so much of it has to do with the environment of your body...It's the stress that will turn that gene on or not...I really encourage people to go a lot longer and further before coming to that conclusion."[80] Andrea Geduld, the director of the Breast Health Resource Center at Mt. Sinai Hospital, criticized Etheridge's remarks. Experts also cautioned that Etheridge's statements were not accurate.[81]
In a 2013 interview withCNN after the U.S. Supreme Court's decisions inUnited States v. Windsor andHollingsworth v. Perry, Etheridge stated that she planned to marry her partner,Linda Wallem.[82] The couple married on May 31, 2014, inSan Ysidro Ranch in Montecito, California, two days after they both turned 53.[83]
Etheridge was featured on a 2015 episode ofWho Do You Think You Are?[84]
Starting in 2014, Etheridge partnered with a California medical marijuana dispensary to make cannabis-infused wine.[85]
A 2016 article inThe New York Times stated that Etheridge worehearing aids.[86]
In 2019, her daughter, Bailey Cypher, graduated fromColumbia University.[87][88]
On May 13, 2020, Etheridge announced on her Twitter that Beckett, her son with Cypher, had died of causes related to opioid addiction at the age of 21.[89][90]

Etheridge has received various accolades and honors throughout her career. Among her competitive awards, she has won twoGrammy Awards (from 15 nominations),[6] anAcademy Award,[13] and aJuno Award.[91]
Among her honorary accolades, she has received theASCAP Founders Award,[15] an Honorary Doctor of Music Degree fromBerklee College of Music,[14] and a star on theHollywood Walk of Fame.[16]
She ranked No. 49 onVH1's list of100 Greatest Women in Rock & Roll in 1999.[92]
How does a rock star begin an evening? She puts in her hearing aids.