| Me, Myself and Mum | |
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| Directed by | Guillaume Gallienne |
| Screenplay by | Guillaume Gallienne |
| Based on | Les garçons et Guillaume, à table! by Guillaume Gallienne |
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| Cinematography | Glynn Speeckaert |
| Edited by | Valérie Deseine |
| Music by | Marie-Jeanne Serero |
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| Distributed by | Gaumont |
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Running time | 85 minutes |
| Country | France |
| Language | French |
| Budget | $8.5 million[1] |
| Box office | $25 million[2] |
Me, Myself and Mum (French:Les Garçons et Guillaume, à table !) is a 2013 Frenchautobiographicalcoming-of-agecomedy film written, directed by and starringGuillaume Gallienne.Based on his stage show of the same name, it follows Guillaume as a boy as he develops his ownidentity and his relationship with his mother.
The film premiered at the2013 Cannes Film Festival and was released in France on 20 November 2013. In January 2014, the film was nominated for 10César Awards and won 5, includingBest Film andBest First Feature Film.
In a theatre, Guillaume recounts how his life developed as a youth. As a youngeffeminate boy, his mother casually dismisses his antics. When he asks to go and learn Spanish, his mother sends him toLa Línea de la Concepción. There he stays with Paqui, a Spanish woman unable to speak French. As they awkwardly try to communicate, she suggests teaching him how to dance thesevillanas. Becoming proficient, Guillaume dances at a local festival but is subjected to laughter. Oblivious to why, he asks a woman named Pilar to dance with him. She politely refuses, explaining to him how he dances like a girl. He asks her if she thinks he looks like a girl. She agrees and he happily remarks that his mother would be delighted.
Fascinated by his mother, Guillaume imitates her voice to the family cook and his grandmother, Babou. His father, however, is dissatisfied with his son's behaviour. After catching him pretending to beSissi, his father sends him away to an all-boys boarding school. Unable to withstand the constant taunting, Guillaume writes a plea to his father. Following a psychiatric assessment, his parents decide to transfer him to an English boarding school.
Guillaume revels in his new school, a place where he is no longer judged by his personality. He develops an attraction to a schoolboy named Jeremy, but is heartbroken when he discovers Jeremy having sex with a girl. While his mother tries to console him, she inadvertently blurts out that he ishomosexual, a thought that did not initially occur to him. He gains exemption from hisnational service because of his fragile state.
After a series of psychotherapy sessions, Guillaume decides to visit a Bavarian spa to relax. There he is given a painfulsports massage by Raymund and an unexpectedcolonic by Ingeborg. Still conflicted about his sexuality, he is advised by his aunt to experiment. During his first attempt, he introduces himself to a man named Karim at a nightclub and follows him home. At Karim's flat, he finds two other men waiting togang bang him. He escapes after Karim realises that he is not an Arab. In his second attempt, he meets a well-endowed man and panics.
Eventually, Guillaume meets a woman named Amandine at a friend's dinner party. He falls in love and they get engaged. When broaching the subject to his mother, she begins to question his sexuality. Guillaume realises that she finds this difficult to accept because she fears losing him to another woman.
Taken from his successful 2008 one-man stage show at the Théâtre de l’Ouest Parisien,[3] Gallienne adapted the script for film with the help ofClaude Mathieu [fr] and her husband, Nikolas Vassiliev. The film was produced by LGM Productions, Rectangle Productions andGaumont. Filming took place on location inParis in July 2012.[4]
In a 2014 interview withThe Guardian, Gallienne explained how the concept came to him during therapy session, expressing how "it became the connecting link for all the separate anecdotes in the puzzle of my life; as if all the years of confusion suddenly made sense."[5] In an interview withLe Monde, he described how as a young boy he would be very feminine, giving the impression that he was homosexual. The original French title (”Boys, Guillaume, dinner is served!“) originates from a phrase his mother would use when calling her children to a meal, which Gallienne has suggested was her means of differentiating between himself and her more masculine sons.[6]
The play has been translated into German by Karolina Fell, published byRowohlt Verlag and will be presented in a first foreign language production as "Maman und ich" at theTheater O-TonArt in Berlin on 30 September 2016. The role of Guillaume is going to be played by André Fischer, directed by Alexander Katt.[7][8]
Film reviews were generally positive, with a 3.9 out of 5 rating onAlloCiné based on 23 critics' reviews.[9] Stephen Dalton writing forThe Hollywood Reporter described the film as "sweet and sunny and shamelessly sentimental in places", with "shades ofPedro Almodovar".[10]Variety critic, Peter Debruge called it a "self-deprecating crowdpleaser", and considered Galliene a "curly-haired version of American funnymanTony Hale".[11] Critics particularly praised Galliene's performance in the film. ForLes Fiches du cinéma [fr], Cyrille Latour described it as a "remarkable mix of funny, tenderness and cruelty".[12] Comparisons were drawn between Galliene's role as his mother andDustin Hoffman's performance in the 1982 filmTootsie.[10][13] However, Julien Kojfer atL'Obs criticised the film for containing numerous clichéd characterisations within the storyline.[14]
Writing for theSlate, Charlotte Pudlowski thought the film was socially relevant at a time whenthe issue of same-sex marriage in France was being discussed, stating that "there was something very unique to the film's history about a boy who thinks he is a girl, in a family who believes he is gay and who eventually marries a young woman". She also noted that the film, while similarly themed, was not as sexually explicit as 2013Palme d'Or winner,Blue Is the Warmest Colour.[15]
Me, Myself and Mum grossed $24 million in total worldwide, with $22,479,449 earned in France.[16] It became the fifth best cinematic opening of 2013 in France, debuting at the top of the French box office and selling 69,342 tickets across 406 screens in its first week.[17][18] The film was screened in theDirectors' Fortnight section at the2013 Cannes Film Festival where it received astanding ovation.[19] It also won the top prize (Art Cinema Award) and the Prix SACD.[20] In January 2014, the film was nominated for tenCésar Awards at the39th César Awards[21] and won awards forBest Film andBest First Feature Film.[22]
| Award | Category | Nominee(s) | Result |
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| 19th Lumière Awards[23] | Best First Film | Me, Myself and Mum | Won |
| Best Actor | Guillaume Gallienne | Won | |
| 39th César Awards[24] | Best Film | Me, Myself and Mum | Won |
| Best First Feature Film | Me, Myself and Mum | Won | |
| Best Director | Guillaume Gallienne | Nominated | |
| Best Actor | Guillaume Gallienne | Won | |
| Best Supporting Actress | Françoise Fabian | Nominated | |
| Best Adaptation | Guillaume Gallienne | Won | |
| Best Editing | Valérie Deseine | Won | |
| Best Sound | Marc-Antoine Beldent, Loic Prian, Olivier Do Huu | Nominated | |
| Best Costume Design | Olivier Beriot | Nominated | |
| Best Production Design | Sylive Olive | Nominated | |
| 2013 Deauville American Film Festival[25] | Prix Michel d'Ornano (Michel d'Ornano Award for debut French film | Guillaume Gallienne | Won |