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Discrimination against asexual people, also known asacephobia[1][2][3] oraphobia when directed at aro/ace (aromantic and/or asexual) people,[4][5][6][7] encompasses a range of negative attitudes, behaviours, and feelings towardasexuality or people who identify as asexual. Negative feelings or characterisations toward asexuality includedehumanisation, the belief that asexuality is amental illness, that asexual people cannot feel love, and the refusal to accept asexuality as a genuinesexual orientation. Asexuality is sometimes confused withcelibacy,abstinence,antisexualism, orhyposexuality.[8][9] As a form of discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, acephobia belongs under the wider social concept ofkyriarchy.[10][11]
There have been efforts to combat anti-asexual discrimination through legislation or education (such as through workshops on asexuality).[12][13]
Behaviours and attitudes that are considered discriminatory include the idea that asexuality is a mental illness, that asexuality is a phase or a choice, the idea that asexual people cannot feel love, and those that make asexual people feel dehumanised.[2][14][15][16] Asexuality would also be perceived as an "excuse" to disengage in certain social interactions, making asexual people a socially rejected group since they are associated with negative social traits.[17][18] Aspects of discrimination experienced can depend on other parts of one's identity.[19] Despite an increase in media attention over the years, asexuality remains widely poorly-understood; oneSky News survey found that 53% of 1,119 respondents felt confident in defining asexuality, but that 75% of this group did so incorrectly, or defined asexual people as simply lacking alibido.[20]
Asexual people sometimes face discriminatory or dismissive attitudes or behaviours both within and beyond theLGBTQ community. In 2011, LGBTQ activistDan Savage stated that asexuality was a choice, describing it as "choosing not to have sex" and deeming it unworthy of attention.[21][22]
Ruth Westheimer, asex therapist, professor, and author, also faced criticism by some for her view that the ability to achieveorgasm would mean that a person could not be asexual,[23] and was further criticized by some in 2015 for implying that asexuality was a problem in need of solving.[23] A study on 169 asexual people published in April 2016 byYale University found that many encountered dismissal and scepticism oncoming out.[24] There have been efforts to stop the exclusion of asexuals fromLGBTQ pride events.[21]
Asexual people whose asexuality has been accepted only because there is no other explanation for their lack of interest in sexual activity have come to be known as "unassailable asexual[s]".[25] Disbelieving attitudes towards asexuality can leave asexual people afraid to come out.[26]
A 2017 LGBT survey conducted by the Government of the United Kingdom found that 2% of more than 108,000 respondents identified as asexual. Asexual people had the joint-lowest (alongsidepansexual people) average life satisfaction of any sexual orientation amongstcisgender respondents. The results of the survey also showed asexual people to be the least comfortable cisgender LGBTQ group within the United Kingdom, and 89% of cisgender asexual respondents – the highest percentage of any group surveyed – were reluctant to be open with their identity for fear of negative reactions.[27]
Asexual people may be socially discriminated against due to beliefs ofheterosexuality being the default sexuality, or the belief that asexual people are justgay orlesbian people in denial of their "real" identity.[15][28] Some have argued that asexuality has also been used as a tool inanti-Blackness to "de-sexualise" some Black people through racist stereotypes, such as in themammy archetype in the United States.[29]
A study of 11 women of colour found that the majority of participants were rejected in social groups due to both their race and asexuality.[30]
Two studies found that asexual people are more dehumanised than heterosexuals, homosexuals, and bisexuals, often being compared to animals or robots due to their sexuality.[31][32][33]
Having emerged more recently as an identity, asexual people often have less legal protection thangay,lesbian, andbisexual people.[34] They may be pressured into engaging in sexual activity or into going to a doctor to have their asexuality "fixed".[35] Asexuals have also been known to have been subjected tocorrective rape.[36][21][26] A 2015 survey found that 43.5% of the almost 8000 asexual people polled had encounteredsexual violence,[26] despite the misconception that asexual people never encounter or are involved in sexual situations and are therefore unable to besexually assaulted.[26]
Some, such as the sociologist Mark Carrigan, believe that discrimination against asexual people has more to do with marginalisation than the typical hatred associated with other forms of sexuality-based discrimination such as homophobia, and that much discrimination against asexual people results from a lack of understanding and awareness of asexuality.[37][38]
A study of 248 asexual college students shows that some asexual people do not identify with the LGBTQ umbrella.[39] There is also controversy over the inclusion of asexuality in the LGBTQ umbrella for a variety of reasons, including the false belief that asexuals do not experience oppression akin tohomophobia andtransphobia,[22][21] and the belief that asexuality is not a sexual orientation.[40] Sherronda J. Brown ofWear Your Voice stated that some people who oppose the inclusion of asexual people in the LGBTQ community have been known to argue that asexuals are not discriminated against at all, and that asexual people experiencestraight privilege.[41] Brown criticised this view as erasing the asexual identity on the assumption that asexual people are fraudulent infiltrators of the LGBTQ community, and because it assumes that everyone is straight unless proven otherwise.[41]
A study of 148 undergraduates at a Canadian university found evidence to suggest that negative attitudes towards asexuals were higher than that of gay, lesbian, and bisexual people. The study also showed that participants were less likely to rent[clarification needed] to asexuals than their heterosexual counterparts. However, they were more likely to rent to asexuals than bisexuals. In addition, the study found a positive correlation betweenright-wing authoritarian identification and negative attitudes towards asexuality.[32]
In another study, 101 participants (none of whom belonged to a sexual minority) were asked to complete an online survey onSurveyMonkey. To rule out unfamiliarity as the cause of negative attitudes, they included questions onsapiosexuals. The study showed that people were less familiar with sapiosexuals. However, attitudes towards asexuals were less positive than that of sapiosexuals, which suggests that unfamiliarity may not play a significant role in aphobia.[32]
A 2017 study of over 30,000 students by theAustralian Human Rights Commission showed that 15% of students who identified as asexual had been sexually assaulted in 2015 and/or 2016, this rate being second only to that of sexual assault on students who identified as bisexual (18%) and well over the rate for those who identified as homosexual or heterosexual (respectively 8% and 6%).[42]
In March 2018, theDutch Council of State refused anasylum application by an Algerian national who feared being persecuted due to his asexuality, stating that asexuality does not fall under the LGBTQ exception to thesafe country of origin concept because it is not punishable in Algeria and that asexual people are not discriminated against there. The ruling was overturned by the District Court of The Hague, who said that asexuality does fall under the exception because they considered "social discrimination on the grounds of sexual orientation" to include "deviation from traditional relationships" as well as sexual acts.[43]
In the same year, the UK'sLGBT Foundation stated that, because of a lack of awareness and apprehension, asexual communities are frequently overlooked in the LGBTQ community.[8]
On 6 April 2025,Harry Potter creatorJ.K. Rowling criticized the inclusion of "asexual" under the LGBTQIA+ umbrella on the social media platformTwitter (officially known as X since 2023), stating ofInternational Asexuality Day, "Happy International Fake Oppression Day to everyone who wants complete strangers to know they don't fancy a shag"[44] and "Sure, people are still killed for being gay in a lot of countries, but straight people who don't fancy a quickie are being literally ignored to death",[45] among other posts denying asexuality as a valid sexual identity, and promoting theLGB Alliance and its beliefs. In 2020, the LGB Alliance stated on whether "asexuality" should be a protected sexual orientation and identity, "Suggesting ever-expanding definitions for protected characteristics does nothing to promote mutual respect in society."[46]Anti-transgender writer Stephen Knight also described the LGB Alliance as being against including "asexual" (A) and "transgender" (T) as part of the LGBTQIA+ umbrella.[47]
In some jurisdictions, marriages can be voided if not legitimised byconsummation.[48] This has been viewed as being discriminatory to asexuals.[49]Sex education programmes in schools have also been claimed as discriminatory to asexuals.[50][51]
In early 2015, Russia passed a law banning, amongst others, people with "disorders of sexual preference" from obtaining driving licences. The Association of Russian Lawyers for Human Rights stated that it effectively banned "all transgender people,bigender, asexuals,transvestites,cross-dressers, and people who need sex reassignment" from driving.[52]
Asexuals are less-well represented by mainstream media and services, facilitating hostility and prejudice towards asexuals, and can lead to their rejection from both the non-queer and LGBTQ communities. Someonline dating services, includingBumble andMatch.com lack the option for users to identify as asexual, which obstructs their ability to find romantic partners.[53]
Asexuality is sometimes represented in media as undesirable.[54] In 2012, the TV medical dramaHouse was criticised for its portrayal of asexuality within the medical profession and encouraging scepticism on the legitimacy of asexuality. The storyline centred on the assumption that the asexuality of the episode's patients – a married asexual couple – was the result of a medical condition, with one asexual character being described as a "giant pool of algae" and the titular character betting $100 on finding a medical reason behind another's asexuality; the show was criticised by AVEN founderDavid Jay for its depiction of asexuality as a "problematic and pathological" medical condition.[55] In 2017, the decision to turn the characterJughead inRiverdale (a television programme based onArchie Comics) from asexual to heterosexual was met with disapproval, with one branding it "asexual erasure".[56]
In 2008, Portuguese media would host interviews with asexual people in the Portuguese community. The interviews would revolve around assumptions about an asexual person's sex life, and comments on personal experiences would be invalidated due to not fitting into the media's assumption of asexuality.[57]
In 2019, the video gameDeath Stranding was criticised for portraying asexuality as a lifestyle, implying that whom one is attracted to is a choice, mistaking asexuality for not wanting emotional bonds, and insinuating that asexuality is responsible for the decline of the birth rate in its world.[58][59] When the game released adirector's cut version in 2021, the data log describing these views is updated and contains an addendum that notes the log "advances a controversial thesis widely regarded as unsubstantiated and discriminatory". This change was praised by critics for acknowledging the criticism that the game originally had, correcting their mistake, and further expanding on why the original log was problematic.[60][61]
InNew York, theSexual Orientation Non-Discrimination Act categorises asexuals as aprotected class.[62]
TheAsexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN), an organisation founded in 2001 by David Jay, aims to raise awareness of asexuality,[63] through such means as discussions in schools about asexuality and discouraging discriminatory attitudes towards the sexuality.[2]Asexual Awareness Week is an annual event formed by Sarah Beth Brooks in 2010, also with the aim of raising asexual awareness and dispelling misconceptions.[15] There have been attempts to increase awareness of asexuality in universities.[64] A number of community support groups for asexual people have been formed, such as Asexuals of the Mid-Atlantic, a meetup group for asexual people centred inWashington, D.C.,[65][66] whose members founded The Asexual Awareness Project, an asexual advocacy organisation.[65]
In autumn of 2014, the bookThe Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality, written byJulie Sondra Decker, was published, with Decker stating that the aim of the book was for it to be used insex education to increase common knowledge of sexuality.[67]
In 2015, United KingdomLabour Partyparliamentary candidate George Norman called forParliament to add asexuality to its existing equality legislation, and to recognise that one per cent of the UK's electorate identified as asexual.[34]
In 2016, the Asexual Aromantic Alliance was founded atIowa State University to encourage co-operation between the asexual andaromantic communities, with the aim of "help[ing to] eliminate acephobia."[3][68]
It's important to talk about asexuality because it's often an overlooked sexual identity, andacephobia – discrimination against asexual people – is experienced by many asexual people.
Closely linked to homophobia, biphobia, transphobia andacephobia
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