Winger was born inCleveland Heights, Ohio, into aJewish family, to Robert Winger, a meat packer, and Ruth (née Felder), an office manager.[4][5] Over the years, she told many interviewers that shevolunteered on an Israeli kibbutz, sometimes even saying she had trained with theIsrael Defense Forces,[6] but in a 2008 interview she said she was merely on a typical youth tour that visited the kibbutz.[7] At age 18, after returning to the U.S., she was involved in a car crash and suffered acerebral hemorrhage; as a result, she was left partially paralyzed and blind for 10 months, initially being told that she would never see again. With time on her hands to think about her life, she decided that, if she recovered, she would move to California and become an actress.[8]
Winger's first acting role was as "Debbie" in the 1976sexploitation filmSlumber Party '57. Her next role was as Diana Prince's younger sister Drusilla (Wonder Girl) in three episodes ofABC's TV seriesWonder Woman. The producers wanted her to appear more often, but she refused, fearing that the role would hurt her fledgling career. This was followed by a guest role in season 4 of the TV dramaPolice Woman in 1978.[9] Winger played a supporting role in Willard Huyck's 1979 comic coming-of-age filmFrench Postcards.
Over the years Winger acquired a reputation for being outspoken and difficult to work with.[11][12][13] She has expressed her dislike ofAn Officer and a Gentleman, for which she refused to do any publicity,[13] and several of her other films, and has been dismissive of some of her co-stars and directors. WhenBarbara Walters interviewedBette Davis in 1986, Davis said, "I see a great deal of myself in Debra Winger, who has already acquired a reputation for being difficult, because she cares about the project."
In 1995, Winger decided to take a hiatus from acting. In 2002, she said, "I wanted out for years. I got sick of hearing myself say I wanted to quit. It's like opening an interview with 'I hate interviews!' Well, get out! I stopped reading scripts and stopped caring. People said, 'We miss you so much.' But in the last six years, tell me a film that I should have been in. The few I can think of the actress was so perfect".[15] After makingForget Paris in 1995, she was absent from the screen for six years before returning in 2001 withBig Bad Love, written and directed by her husband, Arliss Howard. The film was also Winger's debut as a producer.[16]
Winger (right) at Transilvania International Film Festival 2014
Winger earned anEmmy Award nomination for her title role as the mother of aColumbine shooting victim in the 2005 television filmDawn Anna, directed byArliss Howard. In 2010 she returned to television, making a guest appearance as a high school principal in an episode ofLaw & Order.[19] She also joined the cast of HBO'sIn Treatment as one of the three patients featured in the third season.[20]
In 2017, Winger had a cameo as Supreme Court JusticeElena Kagan in the TV miniseriesWhen We Rise.[23] The same year, she starred in her first romantic lead after many years inThe Lovers.[24] She has continued to acquire roles in other feature films, such asTiger City, released in 2018.[25]
During her hiatus from the film industry, Winger spent a semester as ateaching fellow atHarvard University.[26] In 2008, she wrote a book,Undiscovered, based on her personal recollections.[27] She has shown her support for reconciliation between Arabs and Jews in Israel by visiting the bilingualHand in Hand schools (Galilee Jewish-Arab School,Gesher al HaWadi School) where, in 2008, she said she would "dedicate the next bit of my life to these schools".[28]
In 2010, Winger was co-executive producer of the Academy Award-nominated documentaryGasland.[29] She was also the executive producer of the 2012 documentaryBel Borba Aqui, about the life and works of Brazilian graphic artistBel Borba.[30][31]
Winger's three-year relationship with actor Andrew Rubin ended in 1980.[32] From 1983 to 1985 she datedBob Kerrey, at the time the governor of Nebraska, whom she met while filmingTerms of Endearment inLincoln, Nebraska.[33] Winger also dated herCannery Row andEverybody Wins co-starNick Nolte.[34]
From 1986 to 1990, Winger was married to actorTimothy Hutton, with whom she had a son, Noah Hutton, a documentary filmmaker born in 1987. The marriage ended in divorce.[35][34]
In 1996, Winger married actor/directorArliss Howard, whom she met on the set of the filmWilder Napalm. Their son, Gideon Babe Ruth Howard (known as Babe), was born in 1997. She is stepmother to Sam Howard, Arliss's son from his prior marriage.[35][34]
Allen, Henry (December 13, 1983)."Debra Winger, Coming to Terms".The Washington Post.Archived from the original on August 18, 2016. RetrievedJune 24, 2016.She tried studying criminology and sociology at Cal State-Northridge, and went to Israel to spend time on a kibbutz, but by 17, she'd moved away from home and she was making it in commercials.
"Debra Winger".People. December 26, 1983.Archived from the original on August 28, 2016. RetrievedJune 24, 2016.At 16, she ran off to a kibbutz and did her basic training in the Israeli Army.
Klein, Uri (July 14, 2006)."On Her Own Terms".Haaretz.Archived from the original on August 10, 2016. RetrievedJune 24, 2016.Exaggerated reports about her also concern her biography. For example, at one of the Internet sites devoted to her it is stated that she spent part of her youth on a kibbutz in Israel and even served for several months in the Israel Defense Forces. Winger laughs. Indeed, when she was 17, she spent four months at KibbutzBeit Zera, but she never enlisted in the IDF. She took part inGadna (youth cadet) activities, and apparently once told this to someone who told it to someone and it developed into an urban legend, according to which Debra Winger was once a soldier in the IDF.