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Dating sims, also known asdating simulation games, are avideo game subgenre ofsimulation games with romantic elements. While resembling thevisual novel genre in presentation, dating sims utilize an additional statistical and time management layer in their gameplay. The player is given a specific amount of time on an in-game calendar, while scheduling dates, correctly answering questions, and performing various activities will increase a certain character's attraction to the player until the player gains their love. The additional subgenre[vague][original research?] of erotic dating sims are a form oferoge, and include sexually graphic cutscenes. The idea that love can only be earned through time and attention has prompted concern that it oversimplifies romance and depicts a "nice guy" view that may lead to unrealistic expectations from women.[relevant?][1]
Dating sims, typically in the form ofbishōjo games with a male protagonist and female supporting characters, are extremely popular in Japan, taking up a large fraction of the software market, but far less prominent elsewhere.[2] In Western gaming media, the "dating sim" label is often given to any game with romanceable characters, regardless of their gameplay.[citation needed]Parodic dating sims are a more recent[when?] phenomenon, poking fun at the genre by allowing the player to date unusual characters, such as realistic but sentient birds inHatoful Boyfriend.[3]
The dating simulator genre was preceded by theraising simulation genre best codified by thePrincess Maker series byGainax, which focused onchild raising rather than dating.[4] Other games such as Sega'sGirl's Garden (1985) and JAST'sTenshitachi no Gogo (1985) include elements of dating sims, though they have more adventure/arcade gameplay.
One of the first games exclusively centered on dating wasNakayama Miho no Tokimeki High School (1987) released for theFamicom Disk System, about a boy trying to date a girl at his high school who looks like pop idolMiho Nakayama. Unlike more modern dating sims, the game's plot is progressed through text choices, and as such plays more like graphical text adventures of the time (similar to games such asFamicom Detective Club.)
The first game which set the standard for the dating sim genre wasDōkyūsei (1992), which relied more on timed events than dialogue choices.Tokimeki Memorial (1994) truly popularized dating sims in Japan, in which the player, a high school student has the ability to date a dozen different girls.[5] The goal of the developers was to hearken back to high school days. Konami director Akihiko Nagata said "the person who created the game wanted to have experiences like this back in his high school days".[4] The game was a strong hit in Japan, with 1.1 million copies by 1996.[4]
In general,simulation games (such asTokimeki Memorial) or thetrain sim likeDensha de Go! were more popular in Japan than in America which preferred more action oriented video games.[6]
Games such asSakura Wars andPersona (both series started in 1996, the latter would add dating sim elements in2006) are RPGs with dating sim elements.
In a typical dating sim, the player controls a male avatar surrounded by female characters. The gameplay involves conversing with a selection of girls, attempting to increase their internal "love meter" through correct choices of dialogue. The game lasts for a fixed period of game time, such as one month or three years. When the game ends, the player either loses the game if he failed to properly win over any of the girls, or "finishes" one of the girls, often by having sex with her, marrying her (as inMagical Date), and/or achieving eternal love. This gives the games morereplay value, since the player can focus on a different girl each time, trying to get a different ending.
Dating sims often revolve almost entirely around relationship-building, usually featuring complex character interactions and branchingdialogue trees, and often presenting the player's possible responses word-for-word as theplayer character would say them. Dating sims such asTokimeki Memorial, and some role-playing games with similar relationship based mechanics to the genre such asPersona, often give choices that have a different number of associated "mood points" which influence a player character's relationship and future conversations with anon-player character. These games often feature aday-night cycle with a time scheduling system that provides context and relevance to character interactions, allowing players to choose when and if to interact with certain characters, which in turn influences their responses during later conversations.[7]
Whilebishōjo games make up the bulk of dating sims, other types of games exist. Games where the player character is female and potential objects of affection are male are known as GxB orotome games. Homosexual relationships are also possible, as there are games with no specific gender lines ("all pairings"). There are alsogirls' love games, which focus on female/female relationships, andboys' love games, which focus on male/male pairings.
There are many variations on this theme: high-school romances are the most common, but a dating sim may also take place in a fantasy setting and involve such challenges as defending one's girl from monsters.
One game series that often includes dating, with the goal of marriage, is thefarm life sim seriesHarvest Moon. The subplot of dating is more focused towards choosing one of several girls or guys (dependent on the player character's gender) and offering them presents or joining them on events in the game. TheStar Ocean series of RPGs also feature dating sim elements in a similar manner.
Some Japanese dating sims may allow the player to have romantic or sexual relationships with characters in their teens.[citation needed] The degree of sexual content varies, but may often include intercourse. Sexually explicit dating sims may fall into the category ofH Game orEroge. Eroge only gets released to PC because large Japanese game companies do not want to release games with sexual content on their game consoles. Because of this, Eroge companies make a censored all-ages (15+) version of the PC version for various consoles. Censored versions often contain additional endings and added scenes to compensate for the absence of sexual scenes.[citation needed]
These games also often involve raising stats that reflect the player's skills and can be combined with other genres. Series such asSakura Wars andPersona combinerole-playing game (RPG) gameplay with dating sim gameplay.[8]
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