Aceremony (UK:/ˈsɛrəməni/,US:/ˈsɛrəˌmoʊni/) is a unifiedritualistic event with a purpose, usually consisting of a number of artistic components, performed on a special occasion.
According toDally Messenger andAlain de Botton, in most Western countries the values and ideals articulated in both church andcivil ceremonies are generally similar. The difference is in what Messenger calls the "supernatural infrastructure" or de Botton the "implausible supernatural element".[2][3]
Most religions claim some extra advantage conferred by the deity, e.g., Roman Catholics believe that through the words ofconsecration in themass ceremony, God himself becomesactually present on the altar.
Both religious and civil ceremonies share the powerful psychological, social and cultural influences which all ceremony seeks to attain. The style of music played, words used, other components and the structure vary.
Leaders welcome a boy into Scouting, March 2010, Mexico City, Mexico.
AsEdward Schillebeeckx writes about themarriage ceremony, there are a number of ancient traditional elements in both church and civil ceremonies in the western world. Key ceremonies date from the pre-Christian Roman and Greek times, and their practices have continued through the centuries. For example, from pre-Christian Roman times in the marriage ceremony, we inheritbest men andbridesmaids, processions, signing of the contract, exchange ofrings and thewedding cake.[4]
Writer and philosopher de Botton maintainsatheists should appropriate many of the useful insights, artistic treasures and symbolism inspired by religion. He argues that the secular world can also learn from the religions the importance of community and continuity.[5] Messenger agrees, and points out that the success ofcivil celebrants in Australia has been partly due to their espousing of these principles, both in theory and practice, since 1973.[6][7]
Senator Lionel Murphy, founder of the civil celebrant movement in Australia, which has now spread to the rest of the Western World
The main impetus to the development of quality civil ceremonies in the Western world was the foresight of the Australian statesman, senator and High court judgeLionel Murphy. In 1973, Australia'scivil celebrant program entrusted carefully selected individuals with the responsibility of providing non-church people with ceremonies of substance and dignity. This initiative to a great extent has now been largely adopted by New Zealand, Canada, the United Kingdom and some states of the US.[2][8]
According toDally Messenger III secular ceremonies are "roadmap" influences which lead to an acceptable, ethical and dignified life. Ceremonies contribute to the unseen ingredients of psychological stability, a sense of identity, reassurances of life's purposes, and the personal sense of self-worth. Murphy considered that personal genuine ceremonies were central to a civilised, stable and happy society. Here he echoed the conviction of the mythologistJoseph Campbell who had maintained the strongly asserted generality that the level of civilised behaviour in a society is directly linked to the practice of ceremonies andrites of passage.[9]
In addition, Messenger makes the following statements:
A complex of good ceremonies raise the level of human happiness in society.
Ceremonies assist humans to adjust to change.
Ceremonies are signposts of the culture and indicate that such a culture has life-affirming substance.
Ceremonies are an important means of expressing, reinforcing and transmitting values.
Ceremonies are constructed from the visual and performing arts. In a chosen setting they are an important vehicle for telling stories, reciting poetry and prose, using symbolism, and performing music.
Ceremonies, done well, leave lifelong lasting memories and therefore permanent good effects.
The better a ceremony is done, the better its psychological, cultural, and social outcomes.[2]
To be powerful and effective, such ceremonies, in the view of all the scholars in the field,[2]: 3 had to have impact. This occurred when the ceremony was framed by the visual and performing arts. Great care had to be taken in creating and choosing the poetry, prose, stories, personal journeys, myths, silences, dance, music and song, shared meditations, choreography and symbolism which comprised a ceremony. To reinforce the psychological and cultural power of ceremony it should be enacted, as far as possible, in a beautiful interior and exterior place. Beauty is the essential core of ceremony, having always been part of "raising the spirit" and embedding the good in the memory.[2]: 3–8
Ceremonies, as they always had been, are historically the bridge between the visual and performing arts and the people. Murphy and his followers, and international practitioners such as David Oldfield of Washington DC understand that ceremonies are core expressions of the culture. Done well, they can assist in majordecision-making, bringemotional security, strengthenbonds between people, and communicate a sense ofcontentment. To quote David Oldfield:[10]
Lionel Murphy also knew that the superficial, the unaware, were not the right persons to bring this about. Thecivil celebrant needs to have a rich skill-set and knowledge base. Murphy is on the record as asserting that the civil celebrant needed to have a "feel" for ceremony and be professional, knowledgeable, educated, creative, imaginative, inspired, well presented, idealistic, and well practised.
The civil celebrant should be a person inspired to improve lives at a deep and lasting level. For this reason they must be carefully chosen. The ideal is that they be educated in the humanities and trained to expertly co-create, creatively write and perform ceremonies.[7]: 16ff
The funeral ritual, too, is a public, traditional and symbolic means of expressing our beliefs, thoughts and feelings about the death of someone loved. Rich in history and rife with symbolism, the funeral ceremony helps us acknowledge the reality of the death, gives testimony to the life of the deceased, encourages the expression of grief in a way consistent with the culture's values, provides support to mourners, allows for the embracing of faith and beliefs about life and death, and offers continuity and hope for the living.[15]
Naming Ceremonies existed in human culture long before Christianity or any of the major religions came on the scene. Every community has a ceremony to welcome a new child into the world, to give that child recognition, and to celebrate the birth of new life.[16]
AgingNewly commissionedofficers celebrate their new positions by throwing their midshipmen covers into the air as part of the U.S. Naval Academy class of 2005 graduation and commissioning ceremony.
Ceremonies may have a physical display ortheatrical component:dance, aprocession, the laying on of hands. A declaratory verbal pronouncement may explain or cap the occasion, for instance:
I now pronounce you husband and wife.
I swear to serve and defend the nation ...
I declare open the games of ...
I/We dedicate this ... ... to ...
Both physical and verbal components of a ceremony may become part of aliturgy.
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^abcdeMessenger, Dally;Murphy's Law and the Pursuit of Happiness: a History of the Civil Celebrant Movement, Spectrum Publications, Melbourne (Australia), 2012ISBN978-0-86786-169-3
^Kelly, Fran; Radio Interview with Alain de Botton, RN Breakfast, Australian Broadcasting Commission, Podcast 2012.
^Schillebeeckx, Edward; translated by N.D. Smith:; Secular Reality and Saving Mystery. Volumes 1 & 2, Sheed and Ward, London, 1963. Note: later versions have these ISBNs:ISBN978-0722076644ISBN0722076649
^Messenger III, Dally, We Had a Dream, in the Australian Humanist, no 121, Autumn 2016, published by the Australian Humanist Society, Canberra ACT
^Oldfield, David."Director".Midway Centre. Midway Centre for Creative Imagination.Archived from the original on 13 January 2020. Retrieved13 January 2020.
^Oldfield, David,The Journey: An experiential Rite of Passage for Modern Adolescents, as a contributor in Mahdi, Louise Carus (Editor),Crossroads: The Quest for Contemporary Rites of Passage, Open Court Publishing, 1996, Chicago p145ffISBN0 8126 9190 3
^Fierst, Gerald,The Heart of the Wedding, Parkhurst Brothers, Chicago, 2011,ISBN978-1-935166-22-1 p.76ff
^Messenger, Dally."Weddings".www.marriagecelebrant.com. International College of Celebrancy.Archived from the original on 31 January 2020. Retrieved22 January 2020.
^Wolfelt, Alan (16 December 2016)."Why is the funeral ritual important?".centerforloss.com. Center for Loss and Life Transition.Archived from the original on 31 January 2020. Retrieved31 January 2020.
^Hurley, Kathleen."Giving Your child a Name".Marriage Celebrant. International College of Celebrancy.Archived from the original on 31 January 2020. Retrieved31 January 2020.