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I'm a night owl at heart. Hand me a controller or remote and I'll be happy 'til 2am.

But after 4 years of college classes and 4 years of parenting demanding I wake up early, I've trained myself to be able to wake up at 6 each day.

So here's a tip I've learned from each of those years:

1. Get enough sleep

Perhaps the most obvious (and the one everyone mentions), but it is true! You won't do very well waking up early (or at all) if you are over tired.

Try to get 7½ to 9 hours of sleep every night. How much specifically varies from person to person. For example, if I get less than 8-9 hours consistently, I start feeling the effects and feel more lethargic and less motivated during the day.

But what if you truly can't get that much sleep tonight?

2. Sleep in multiples of 90 minutes

If you can't sleep for that 7½ to 9 hours, then you'll able to wake up much more easily if you awaken at the end of a sleep cycle rather than from the middle (aka "deep" sleep). Since sleep cycles often end on90 minute increments, try to sleep for a multiple of that (3 hours, 4½ hours, 6 hours). For example, I've found from many late college nights that 3 hours of sleep feels "better" than 4 hours.

Rabbit hole: both 7½ and 9 hours are also multiples are 90 minutes. Cool right? So we can also take the sleep recommendation as "get 5 or 6 sleep cycles per night" instead of an arbitrary length of time.

Now wait for just a minute. This is not an excuse to get less than a full nights sleep! This is by no means healthy for you in the long term. Only use this tip in emergencies. Speaking of things that aren't healthy...

3. Do not snooze

Unlike the previous tips that I don't always follow, this is absolutely non-negotiable. Do not snooze your alarm!

Waking up to a horrific buzzing and sleeping again for 5 minutes over and over again thrashes your body's hormones telling you to wake up and fall asleep. After a few rounds your body doesn't know what it is doing and you'll struggle to get out of bed.

Wake up the first time you hear your alarm! But I understand how tempting it is to just stay under those nice warm sheets. The next two tips should help with this.

4. Use a carrot/stick alarm

Either use an app / clock that supports this, or have two seperate alarms set. Set them up so that the first alarm is gentle and soothing, slowly building in intensity while the second alarm is loud and obnoxious.

These will be your "carrot" and "stick" for getting out of bed.

The first alarm entices. It tells "awaken friend, today starts another beautiful day".

The second alarm pushes. It yells "Get up you lazy, lumpy potato!".

These two alarms will help you get out of bed better (and not snooze). I found myself getting up to turn off the alarms before the second one sounded because I didn't want to start my day with that awful sound in my ears.

5. Set alarm out of reach

Combined with the last two tips, thistotally changed how I start my days.

I found itmuch harder to snooze my alarms if I could not reach them from the comfort of my bed. Once out of bed it was much easier for me to stay out of bed.

Put the alarm far enough away that you mustfully andcompletely get out of bed to turn it off.

6. Write down what to do

Now that we're awake, what do we do with the extra time that we are not rushing to shower and get dressed?

For me, I cannot rememberanything in the mornings. Put a gun to my head and ask what I needed to do; just pull the trigger because I am incapable of remembering.

To fix that problem, I write a short list the evening before of what I want to do. Unload the dishwasher? done. Pay that bill? check sent.

I find it important to make the list informal though. Erase it or throw it away the next day. Anything like a journal or dating the lists made me feel bad when an item wasn't done. That feeling made me not want to write things on the list for fear of not doing them. Not having the list ensured that I didn't do those things I wanted to do. Keep it short sweet and transient.

7. Be honest about what can be accomplished

Don't make a laundry list a mile long. I don't move very quickly in the morning and an hour or two can only contain so many tasks.

Prioritize and cut down to a few essential things you'd like to do in the morning.

8. Do something fun

Most importantly, do somethingyou want to do. Life is not about dropping your feet onto the gound to start churning out tasks within 5 minutes until your head hits the pillow at night, like some sort of machine.

Take your time. Read that book only you are intereseted in. Play that game. Watch the show no one else wants to watch. Having something you look forward to starting the day makes all the difference.

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