In what ways can 1 Samuel 25:9 guide our interactions with authority figures?
Setting the Scene
• David sends a delegation to Nabal during sheep-shearing festivities (1 Samuel 25:5-8).
• The messengers speak “on David’s behalf, and then they waited” (1 Samuel 25:9).
• Nabal, a wealthy landowner, functions as the authority figure over the feast and its resources.
The Key Actions in1 Samuel 25:91. Representation: “they relayed all these words to Nabal on David’s behalf.”
2. Respectful address: their words are courteous, grounded in peace (v. 6).
3. Patience: “and then they waited.” No pressure, no threats, just space for a reply.
Principles for Our Interactions with Authority• Act as faithful representatives
– David’s men carried his exact message, not their own spin (cf.2 Corinthians 5:20).
– When we approach bosses, leaders, or officials, relay facts accurately, avoiding exaggeration.
• Speak with honor and goodwill
– David instructs, “Greet him in my name: ‘Peace be to you…’ ” (1 Samuel 25:6).
–Titus 3:1-2 calls us to “be subject to rulers… to speak evil of no one.”
– Honor doesn’t depend on the authority’s character; it stems from obedience to God (Romans 13:1-2).
• Wait for a response
– The messengers “waited,” modeling restraint (Proverbs 25:15).
– Give leaders time to process; avoid impulsive follow-ups that feel demanding.
• Trust God with outcomes
– David’s servants did not retaliate when ignored; they reported back (1 Samuel 25:12).
– The Lord ultimately defended David through Abigail’s intervention (vv. 32-33).
–1 Peter 2:23: Jesus “entrusted Himself to Him who judges justly.”
Putting It into Practice Today• Before speaking, pray and prepare the exact message you need to convey.
• Open with goodwill: “I appreciate your leadership and want to share…”
• Present your request or concern clearly, then pause—literally stop talking.
• If the answer is delayed or negative, resist complaining. Bring it to God first.
• Remember that respectful patience often cultivates favor in the long run (Proverbs 16:7).
