Do not say, “I will do to him as he has done to me;This phrase addresses the natural human inclination towards revenge and retaliation. In the cultural context of ancient Israel, personal vendettas and retribution were common, yet the wisdom literature consistently advises against such actions. The principle here aligns with the broader biblical teaching found in
Leviticus 19:18, which instructs, "Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself." This reflects the heart of God's law, emphasizing mercy over vengeance. Jesus Christ further expounds on this in the New Testament, particularly in
Matthew 5:38-39, where He teaches to turn the other cheek, promoting forgiveness and grace over retaliation.
I will repay the man according to his work.”
This part of the verse highlights the concept of personal justice, which is discouraged in favor of leaving judgment to God.Romans 12:19 echoes this sentiment, stating, "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: 'It is mine to avenge; I will repay,' says the Lord." The historical context of this teaching is rooted in the understanding that God is the ultimate judge and arbiter of justice. By refraining from personal retribution, believers demonstrate trust in God's sovereign justice. This principle is also a type of Christ, who, despite suffering unjustly, did not retaliate but entrusted Himself to the One who judges justly (1 Peter 2:23). This reflects the call for Christians to follow Christ's example of forgiveness and reliance on God's righteous judgment.
Persons / Places / Events
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The SpeakerThe individual being addressed in this proverb, who is tempted to seek revenge.
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The NeighborThe person who has wronged the speaker, prompting thoughts of retaliation.
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SolomonTraditionally considered the author of Proverbs, offering wisdom and guidance.
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Ancient IsraelThe cultural and historical context in which these proverbs were written, emphasizing community and justice.
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The Act of RetaliationThe event or action being discouraged in this verse, highlighting the human tendency towards revenge.
Teaching Points
Rejecting RetaliationAs Christians, we are called to resist the natural urge to repay wrongs with wrongs. This reflects the character of Christ, who forgave even those who crucified Him.
Trusting God's JusticeBelievers are encouraged to trust in God's perfect justice rather than taking matters into their own hands. God sees all and will judge righteously.
Promoting PeaceBy choosing not to retaliate, we promote peace and reconciliation, which are central to Christian living and witness.
Reflecting Christ's LoveOur response to wrongdoing should reflect the love and forgiveness of Christ, serving as a testimony to others.
Cultivating a Heart of ForgivenessPracticing forgiveness helps us to grow spiritually and maintain healthy relationships, freeing us from the burden of bitterness.
Bible Study Questions and Answers
1.What is the meaning of Proverbs 24:29?
2.How does Proverbs 24:29 guide us in responding to personal offenses?
3.What does "do not say" in Proverbs 24:29 teach about our speech?
4.How does Romans 12:19 relate to Proverbs 24:29's message on vengeance?
5.How can we apply Proverbs 24:29 in daily conflicts with others?
6.What role does forgiveness play in implementing Proverbs 24:29's teachings?
7.How does Proverbs 24:29 align with the concept of forgiveness in Christianity?
8.What historical context influenced the writing of Proverbs 24:29?
9.How does Proverbs 24:29 challenge the idea of personal revenge?
10.What are the top 10 Lessons from Proverbs 24?
11.What is their reward?
12.Should we repay evil with evil? (Proverbs 24:29 vs. Romans 12:17)
13.Proverbs 24:10-12: Does this claim about rescuing those in peril conflict with stories of inaction or injustice found elsewhere in the Bible?
14.Proverbs 24:27: Does the instruction to 'finish your outdoor work' before building a house conflict with archaeological evidence of ancient settlement patterns?What Does Proverbs 24:29 Mean
Do not sayThe verse opens by stopping us before we even speak. Words reveal what the heart is already planning (Matthew 12:34).
• Self-talk of retaliation plants seeds of resentment;Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that “death and life are in the power of the tongue.”
•Proverbs 13:3 warns, “He who guards his mouth protects his life,” tying our verbal restraint to spiritual safety.
•James 1:19–20 echoes the same call: be “slow to speak, slow to anger, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteousness of God.”
The Lord, through Solomon, cuts off revenge at its conception—in our thoughts and on our lips.
I will do to him as he has done to meHere is the flesh-level urge to even the score. Scripture consistently treats this impulse as sin.
•Proverbs 20:22 already said, “Do not say, ‘I will recompense evil’; wait for the LORD, and He will save you.”
•Romans 12:17–18 commands, “Do not repay anyone evil for evil…if it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
• Jesus flips the instinct entirely: “Whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them” (Matthew 7:12), and “Love your enemies” (Luke 6:27).
•1 Peter 3:9 ties the teaching to blessing: “Do not repay evil with evil…but with blessing, because to this you were called that you may inherit a blessing.”
Following Christ means refusing to mirror someone else’s wrongdoing; instead, we mirror Christ’s grace.
I will repay the man according to his workThe longing for justice is right, but the timing and execution belong to God.
•Deuteronomy 32:35 records God’s pledge: “Vengeance is Mine; I will repay.”
•Romans 12:19 quotes the same, adding, “Leave room for God’s wrath.”
•2 Thessalonians 1:6 assures believers that “God is just: He will repay with affliction those who afflict you.”
•Revelation 22:12 seals the promise: “Behold, I am coming soon, and My reward is with Me, to give to each one according to his work.”
When we relinquish payback, we aren’t ignoring justice; we are handing it to the only Judge who sees perfectly and settles accounts eternally.
summaryProverbs 24:29 guides hearts, lips, and actions:
• Stop vengeance at the thought level.
• Reject the reflex to return harm for harm, choosing grace instead.
• Trust God to administer perfect justice in His time.
Living this verse keeps us free from bitterness, aligns us with Christ’s example, and displays confidence in God’s righteous rule.
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Say not, I will do so to him as hehath done to me.--A wonderful anticipation this of New Testament teaching, very different from the spirit of
Leviticus 24:19-20. Comp.
Proverbs 20:22, and
James 2:13, "For he shall have judgment without mercy that shewed no mercy."
Verse 29. - The subject is still continued, as if the moralist would say, "Though a man has done you an injury by gratuitously testifying against you, do not you retaliate in the same way."
Say not, I will do so to him as he hath done to me (see
Proverbs 20:22, and note there). The
lex talionis should not be applied to private wrongs. The high morality of the Christian code is here anticipated, the Holy Spirit guiding both.
Parallel Commentaries ...
Hebrew
Do notאַל־(’al-)Adverb
Strong's 408:Notsay,תֹּאמַ֗ר(tō·mar)Verb - Qal - Imperfect - second person masculine singular
Strong's 559:To utter, say“I will doעָֽשָׂה־(‘ā·śāh-)Verb - Qal - Perfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 6213:To do, maketo himלִ֭י(lî)Preposition | first person common singular
Strong's Hebrewasכַּאֲשֶׁ֣ר(ka·’ă·šer)Preposition-k | Pronoun - relative
Strong's 834:Who, which, what, that, when, where, how, because, in order thathe has doneאֶֽעֱשֶׂה־(’e·‘ĕ·śeh-)Verb - Qal - Imperfect - first person common singular
Strong's 6213:To do, maketo me;לּ֑וֹ(lōw)Preposition | third person masculine singular
Strong's HebrewI will repayאָשִׁ֖יב(’ā·šîḇ)Verb - Hifil - Imperfect - first person common singular
Strong's 7725:To turn back, in, to retreat, againthe manלָאִ֣ישׁ(lā·’îš)Preposition-l, Article | Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 376:A man as an individual, a male personaccording to his work.”כְּפָעֳלֽוֹ׃(kə·p̄ā·‘o·lōw)Preposition-k | Noun - masculine singular construct | third person masculine singular
Strong's 6467:Doing, deed, work
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