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Proverbs 10:1
The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish sonis the heaviness of his mother.

Proverbs 23:15,16
My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine…

Proverbs 29:3
Whoso loveth wisdom rejoiceth his father: but he that keepeth company with harlots spendethhis substance.

despiseth

Proverbs 23:22
Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.

Proverbs 30:17
The eyethat mocketh athis father, and despiseth to obeyhis mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.

Exodus 20:12
Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.

but a foolish man despises his mother
Foolishness in Proverbs is often equated with moral and spiritual folly, not just a lack of intelligence. A foolish man, therefore, acts in ways that are contrary to God's commands, bringing shame and dishonor to his family. In the cultural context of the time, despising one's mother would be seen as a grave offense, as mothers were highly respected figures within the family unit. This phrase highlights the relational and societal consequences of foolishness, contrasting the joy of a wise son with the grief and dishonor brought by a foolish man. The use of "despises" indicates a deep-seated disrespect and rejection of parental guidance, which is contrary to the biblical command to honor one's parents (Exodus 20:12). This reflects the broader biblical narrative where rebellion against parental authority often symbolizes rebellion against God.

• Scripture calls wisdom a moral choice rooted in “the fear of the LORD” (Proverbs 1:7).

• A wise son aligns his life with God’s revealed truth, imitating the “wisdom from above” that is “first pure, then peaceable” (James 3:17).

• Wisdom shows up in everyday decisions—speech that edifies, finances handled ethically, friendships chosen carefully (compareProverbs 13:20; 20:7).

• Solomon often addresses “my son,” urging a heart tuned to God; when that counsel is heeded, parents—and heaven—rejoice (Proverbs 23:15-16).

• The joy here is more than a passing smile; it is deep satisfaction that a child is walking in truth (3John 4).

•Proverbs 23:24 affirms, “The father of a righteous man will greatly rejoice,” highlighting the link between a child’s righteous choices and a parent’s glad heart.

• Jesus’ parable of the returning son pictures a father running to embrace and celebrate obedience restored (Luke 15:20-24).

• Practical outworking:

– Honesty in business dealings lifts a father’s reputation.

– Sexual purity guards the family’s name (Proverbs 5:18-19).

– Compassionate service reflects the Father’s own heart (Matthew 5:16).

• Foolishness in Proverbs is never mere mental deficiency; it is willful rejection of God’s ways (Psalm 14:1).

• Characteristics include:

– Self-reliance: “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes” (Proverbs 12:15).

– Quick temper and reckless words (Proverbs 14:16-17).

– Mockery of sin and authority (Proverbs 14:9).

• The tragic irony: the fool thinks he is free, yet he is enslaved to sin and brings sorrow on those who love him (Proverbs 10:1).

• “Despise” goes beyond surface disrespect; it signifies contempt and rejection of the one who nurtured him.

• God’s law elevates a mother’s honor: “Each of you is to respect his mother and father” (Leviticus 19:3); to violate this is rebellion against God Himself (Exodus 20:12).

• Jesus rebuked religious leaders who excused dishonor under the guise of piety (Matthew 15:4-6).

• Practical expressions of despising a mother:

– Ignoring her counsel (Proverbs 1:8).

– Abandoning her in old age (Proverbs 19:26).

– Speaking harshly or with ridicule (Proverbs 30:17).

• In stark contrast, the wise son “brings joy” by valuing his mother, providing for her needs, and listening to her instruction (Ephesians 6:2).

Proverbs 15:20 sets two clear paths: the wise son, whose reverence for God translates into righteous living that delights his father, and the foolish man, whose disdain for divine order shows up in contempt for his mother. The verse reminds us that choices rooted in godly wisdom bless the family, honor parental authority established by God, and ultimately reflect the heart of the Heavenly Father.