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Proverbs 15:18
A wrathful man stirreth up strife: buthe that is slow to anger appeaseth strife.

Proverbs 10:12
Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.

Proverbs 28:25
He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife: but he that putteth his trust in the LORD shall be made fat.

but a harsh word stirs up anger
In contrast, this phrase warns of the consequences of using harsh or hurtful language. The term "harsh" implies a severe, cutting, or sharp tone that can provoke and intensify anger. In biblical times, words held significant power, and a harsh word could lead to feuds or even violence. This is consistent with the wisdom literature's broader theme, which often contrasts the outcomes of wise versus foolish behavior.Proverbs 29:11 also reflects this idea, stating that a fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back. The teachings of Jesus further reinforce this, as He instructed His followers to love their enemies and bless those who curse them, promoting peace and reconciliation over conflict.

• The verse opens with an attitude, not an argument. A “gentle answer” is a response marked by calm, respect, and self-control (Proverbs 25:15).

• Scripture continually ties gentleness to wisdom and righteousness: “Let your gentleness be evident to all” (Philippians 4:5); “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted” (Ephesians 4:32).

• Gentleness does not mean weakness. Jesus, “gentle and humble in heart” (Matthew 11:29), could still speak with authority.

• God promises a predictable outcome: gentleness defuses volatile emotions. Compare Abigail’s soft words that disarmed David’s fury (1 Samuel 25:23–35).

•Proverbs 16:14 shows the same dynamic: “A king’s wrath is a messenger of death, but a wise man will appease it.”

• By mirroring God’s patience (2 Peter 3:9) we redirect hostility toward reconciliation.

• The contrast is stark. A “harsh word” is cutting, loud, or dismissive—designed to win, not to bless (Proverbs 12:18).

• Harshness often flows from pride (James 4:6) or unchecked anger (Colossians 3:8).

• Scripture warns that careless speech grieves the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 4:29–30).

• Words have creative power; harsh speech “kindles strife” like dry wood on a flame (Proverbs 26:21).

• Escalation replaces edification: “For man’s anger does not bring about the righteousness of God” (James 1:20).

• What begins as a single sharp sentence can fracture families, churches, and witness (Galatians 5:15).

• Pray first, speak second (Psalm 141:3).

• Listen actively; mirror back what you heard (Proverbs 18:13).

• Lower your volume; a soft tone signals peace (Proverbs 17:27).

• Replace accusations with “I” statements and sincere affirmation (Colossians 4:6).

• Remember you represent Christ in every conversation (2 Corinthians 5:20).

Proverbs 15:1 teaches a timeless, literal principle: our words either calm conflict or ignite it. God’s wisdom calls us to answer gently, trusting Him to turn away wrath, while avoiding the harsh speech that only stirs anger. Gentle words reflect the character of Christ and open doors for peace, restoration, and gospel witness.

"Frangitur ira gravis
Quando est respensio suavis."

"Anger, however great,
Is checked by answer sweet." Septuagint, "A submissive (ὑποπίπτουσα) answer averteth wrath." Thus Abigail quelled the excessive anger of David by her judicious submission (1 Samuel 25:24, etc.).But grievous words stir up anger. A word that causes vexation makes anger rise the higher.

Ὁργῆς ματαίας εἰσὶν αἰτιοι λόγοι. . . .

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