Finally, after she had pressed him daily with her wordsThis phrase highlights Delilah's persistent and relentless nature. In the context of the narrative, Delilah's actions reflect a strategic and manipulative approach, similar to the tactics used by other figures in the Bible who sought to achieve their goals through persistence. The daily pressure she applied can be seen as a test of Samson's resolve and character. This persistence is reminiscent of the nagging of the Israelites in the wilderness (
Numbers 11:1-6) and the persistent widow in Jesus' parable (
Luke 18:1-8), though with different moral implications.
and pleaded until he was sick to death,
The phrase "sick to death" indicates the extreme emotional and psychological toll Delilah's actions had on Samson. This expression underscores the intensity of the situation and Samson's vulnerability. Historically, the Philistines, who Delilah was aligned with, were known for their enmity with the Israelites, and this personal conflict between Samson and Delilah reflects the larger national struggle. The phrase also foreshadows Samson's eventual downfall, as his physical strength was not matched by spiritual or emotional resilience. This can be seen as a type of Christ, where Jesus, unlike Samson, withstood temptation and pressure (Matthew 4:1-11), highlighting the contrast between human weakness and divine strength.
Persons / Places / Events
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SamsonA judge of Israel known for his supernatural strength, which was a gift from God tied to his Nazirite vow.
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DelilahA Philistine woman who was used by the Philistine rulers to discover the secret of Samson's strength.
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PhilistinesThe enemies of Israel during the time of the judges, who sought to subdue Samson through Delilah.
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Valley of SorekThe location where Samson met Delilah, a place associated with temptation and betrayal.
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Nazirite VowA vow taken by Samson that included not cutting his hair, which was the source of his strength.
Teaching Points
The Danger of Persistent TemptationDelilah's persistence is a reminder of how temptation can wear down even the strongest individuals. Believers must remain vigilant and rely on God's strength to resist.
The Consequences of CompromiseSamson's eventual disclosure of his secret to Delilah illustrates the dangers of compromising one's values and commitments. Christians are called to uphold their commitments to God, even under pressure.
The Importance of Godly RelationshipsSamson's relationship with Delilah serves as a cautionary tale about the influence of ungodly relationships. Believers should seek relationships that encourage spiritual growth and accountability.
God's Sovereignty and GraceDespite Samson's failures, God used him to fulfill His purposes. This demonstrates God's sovereignty and grace, reminding believers that God can work through our weaknesses.
The Role of Faith in Overcoming TemptationSamson's account encourages believers to cultivate a strong faith that can withstand trials and temptations, trusting in God's provision and strength.
Bible Study Questions and Answers
1.What is the meaning of Judges 16:16?
2.How does Delilah's persistence in Judges 16:16 reveal the danger of temptation?
3.What can we learn about resisting temptation from Samson's response in Judges 16:16?
4.How does Judges 16:16 connect to Proverbs 7:21 on persuasive speech?
5.In what ways can we guard our hearts against persistent temptations today?
6.How can prayer strengthen us against the "nagging" of worldly temptations?
7.Why did Samson reveal his secret to Delilah despite knowing her intentions in Judges 16:16?
8.How does Judges 16:16 illustrate the consequences of ignoring divine warnings?
9.What does Judges 16:16 teach about the dangers of temptation and manipulation?
10.What are the top 10 Lessons from Judges 16?
11.In Judges 16, why would God continue to work through Samson despite his moral failings?
12.In Judges 16:29-30, is it plausible that a single person could topple a temple by pushing two pillars?
13.In Judges 16:1-3, how could Samson realistically carry away an entire city gate on his shoulders?
14.In Judges 16:17, how can hair be the source of such supernatural strength from a scientific perspective?What Does Judges 16:16 Mean
FinallySamson has resisted Delilah’s probing three times (Judges 16:6–15). The word “finally” marks the breaking point. God’s Word often shows a “last straw” moment when repeated temptation meets a heart already flirting with compromise (cf. “When desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin,”James 1:15).
• The patient mercy of God is real (2 Peter 3:9), yet persistent dabbling with sin eventually reaps a harvest (Galatians 6:7–8).
• Samson’s flirtation with danger mirrors Israel’s larger cycle in Judges—delivering grace followed by fresh rebellion.
after she had pressed him dailyDelilah’s strategy is relentless, not dramatic. Scripture warns that temptation often arrives “day after day” (Genesis 39:10, Potiphar’s wife with Joseph).
• Daily pressure can erode firm convictions when they are not daily reinforced (Ephesians 6:13).
• Spiritual victory yesterday is no guarantee for today; we “take up” the armor repeatedly.
with her wordsWords matter. “With her enticing speech she caused him to yield” (Proverbs 7:21).
• The tongue can be a tool for either life or manipulation (Proverbs 18:21).
• Listening unguardedly to voices that contradict God’s call slowly shifts the heart (Psalm 1:1).
and pleadedDelilah moves from flattery to emotional leverage. Judges already recorded an earlier episode: “She wept before him the seven days…so he explained the riddle” (Judges 14:17).
• Emotional appeals can cloud discernment when truth is not anchored firmly (Philippians 1:9–10).
• Samson’s calling was Nazirite consecration (Numbers 6:5), yet he allows personal desire to overrule covenant duty.
until he was sick to deathThe phrase pictures utter exhaustion—Samson’s soul “was annoyed to death” (similar wording inJudges 16:16 NASB).
• Weariness itself is not sin, but surrendering convictions to relieve pressure is (Galatians 6:9).
• Persistent temptation aims to wear saints down (Daniel 7:25), but God promises “the way of escape” (1 Corinthians 10:13).
• Samson’s capitulation will cost him freedom, sight, and years of life; yet even here God will ultimately bring about deliverance for His people (Judges 16:30).
summaryJudges 16:16 pictures the cumulative power of relentless temptation. Delilah’s daily words erode Samson’s resolve until exhaustion replaces vigilance. The verse warns that small compromises, tolerated repeatedly, can topple even the strongest. Our defense is daily renewal in truth, guarded ears, and quick dependence on the Lord, who always provides strength to stand.
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His soul was vexed.--He at last reveals the secret, because he is wearied--literally,
his soul is shortened--to death. (Comp.
Numbers 21:4-5.) Even the dangerous use which Delilah had made of his last revelation did not rouse his mind from its besotted stupefaction.
"Swollen with pride, into the snare I fell
Of fair fallacious looks, venereal trains,
Softened with pleasure and voluptuous life,
At length to lay my head and hallowed pledge
Of all my strength in the lascivious lap
Of a deceitful concubine."--Milton,Sams. Agon.
If he thrice proved his vast strength, he also thrice proved his immense folly. To use his strength in the mere saving of his own life was to squander it, and now, "as if possessed by insanity, he madly trifles with the key of his secret. He risks even the tampering with his hair. From this there is but one step to the final catastrophe" (Ewald).
Verse 16. -
So that. Omit
so. The meaning is, that in consequence of her daily solicitation his soul was vexed (
Judges 10:16) to death - literally, was so short, so impatient, as to be at the point to die.
Parallel Commentaries ...
Hebrew
Finally, afterוַ֠יְהִי(way·hî)Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Consecutive imperfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 1961:To fall out, come to pass, become, beshe had pressedהֵצִ֨יקָה(hê·ṣî·qāh)Verb - Hifil - Perfect - third person feminine singular
Strong's 6693:To constrain, bring into straits, press uponhim dailyהַיָּמִ֖ים(hay·yā·mîm)Article | Noun - masculine plural
Strong's 3117:A daywith her wordsבִדְבָרֶ֛יהָ(ḇiḏ·ḇā·re·hā)Preposition-b | Noun - masculine plural construct | third person feminine singular
Strong's 1697:A word, a matter, thing, a causeand pleadedוַתְּאַֽלֲצֵ֑הוּ(wat·tə·’a·lă·ṣê·hū)Conjunctive waw | Verb - Piel - Consecutive imperfect - third person feminine singular | third person masculine singular
Strong's 509:To pressuntil heנַפְשׁ֖וֹ(nap̄·šōw)Noun - feminine singular construct | third person masculine singular
Strong's 5315:A soul, living being, life, self, person, desire, passion, appetite, emotionwas sickוַתִּקְצַ֥ר(wat·tiq·ṣar)Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Consecutive imperfect - third person feminine singular
Strong's 7114:To dock off, curtail, to harvestto death,לָמֽוּת׃(lā·mūṯ)Preposition-l | Verb - Qal - Infinitive construct
Strong's 4191:To die, to kill
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OT History: Judges 16:16 It happened when she pressed him daily (Jd Judg. Jdg)