The first mention of the termbridegroom dates to 1572,[1] from theOld Englishbrȳdguma,[2] a compound ofbrȳd (bride) andguma (man, human being, hero). It is related to theOld Saxonbrūdigomo, theOld High Germanbrūtigomo, theGermanBräutigam, and theOld Norsebrúðgumi.[2][3]
Groom and bride in traditional highlander Podhale costume,PolandKing James II's wedding suit; Victoria & Albert Museum
The style of the bridegroom's clothing can be influenced by many factors, including the time of day, the location of the ceremony, the ethnic backgrounds of the bride and bridegroom, the type of ceremony, and whether the bridegroom is a member of theArmed Forces.
In theUnited States, the bridegroom usually wears a dark-colored suit for a daytime wedding or atuxedo for an evening ceremony.
British tradition for a formal wedding requires the bridegroom, male ushers, and close male family to wearmorning suits; unless a uniform is appropriate.
In Anglo-American weddings, the bridegroom will often give a short speech after the reception, thanking the guests for attending, complimenting the bride, thanking members of the wedding party, and possibly sharing a "roast toast", in which he makes jokes at the expense of himself or a member of his party. His speech will normally be followed by one from thebest man.
He that hath the bride is the bridegroom: but the friend of the bridegroom, which standeth and heareth him, rejoiceth greatly because of the bridegroom's voice: this my joy therefore is fulfilled.[5]
Also see Matthew 9:15; 25:1-13;Mark 2:19-20; Luke 5:34-35; John 2:9; 3:29.
^Klein, Ernest (1971).A Comprehensive Etymological Dictionary of the English Language Dealing with the Origin of Words and Their Sense Development Thus Illustrating the History of Civilization and Culture. Amsterdam: Elsevier Pub. Co. p. 324.