r-word (pluralr-words)
- (euphemistic) The wordretard orretarded, regarded as avulgar ortaboo word.
- Synonym:r-slur
2003, James Meadours, “Tell the President Stop using that"R" word”, inMouth[1], volume14, number3 (Sep/Oct 2003), page34:I recently spoke supporting a new name for the President's Committee on Mental Retardation. I suggested it be changed to "President's Committee for People with Developmental Disabilities."
2008 August 13, “Ther-word”, inNational Post[2], Don Mills, Ontario, pageA.12:The Tropic Thunder premiere presented a particularly strong opportunity for advocacy groups to make further progress on this front, because theR-word has played a major role in advance viral marketing for the prospective big-budget blockbuster.[…]
2010 February 14, Christopher M. Fairman, “Saying it is hurtful. Banning it is worse”, inThe Washington Post[3], archived fromthe original on24 October 2013:The latest battle over theR-word kicked into high gear with a Jan. 26 Wall Street Journal report that last summer White House Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel blasted liberal activists unhappy with the pace of health-care reform, deriding their strategies as "[expletive] retarded."
2010 August 20, “Jennifer Aniston slammed for using 'retard' word in interview”, inAsian News International[4], New Delhi:When people continue to use the'R' word, it's hurtful," Seckler added.
2025 May 31, Scottie Andrew, “The ‘r-word’ is back. How a slur became renormalized”, inCNN[5]:Throughout 2025, influential public figures like Rogan, Musk and Kanye West have used ther-word on platforms where millions can see and hear them.
- (euphemistic) The wordrape, regarded as avulgar ortaboo word.
1994 April 17, Harvey Porlock, “On the Critical List; Books”, inThe Times[6], London (UK):"Updike can use the`R' word" (rape, he meant) "to describe the love-making (sic) of the two Brazilians and get away with it."
2001, Noelle Howie, “By any other name”, inMs[7], volume11, number2 (Feb/Mar 2001), pages86—89:As the viewer of any after-school special can tell you, women shy away from theR word because they blame themselves.
2004 March 11, Eric Schmitt, “Army Retraining Soldiers to Meet Its Shifting Needs”, inThe New York Times[8], pageA22:You don't ask a victim 'How's it going?' and you don't use theR word with them.
2009 November 23, “The Indian rape trick”, inThe Hindustan Times[9], New Delhi:Of late though, theR-word has acquired a dark new meaning with guys leaping out of bushes onto hapless maidens.
- (euphemistic) The wordredskin orredskins (includingRedskins as a team name) regarded as avulgar ortaboo word.
1992 September 23, Clarence Page, “Block that trademarked racial epithet”, inThe Orlando Sentinel[10], page A9:For years, Native American Indian groups and a wide variety of knee-jerk liberal sympathizers, including me, your humble scrivener, have pointed fingers of shame, shame, shame at theR-word team.
2001, Bruce Stapleton,Redskins: Racial Slur Or Symbol of Success?[11], iUniverse, page49:“Ther-word is no more acceptable to American Indians than the n-word is to blacks,” one woman stated succinctly in a recentPost letter to the editor[…]
2008, Kathleen Eagle,Mystic Horseman[12], page272:It's better than theR word, huh? Redskin? Better than prairie nigger. That's a real beaut. It's even better than Native American.
- (humorous) Any word beginning with r that is considered (often humorously) to be taboo in the given context.
1993, Sam Roberts, “Mayoral Campaign Tests The Loyalty of Democrats”, inThe New York Times[13], page B2:Neither Mayor David N. Dinkins nor Mr. Cuomo, though, has been reluctant to invoke the symbolism of anotherR-word: Republican.
1994 February 25, Charlie Nobles, “Polonia Gives Boggs a New Dimension”, inThe New York Times[14], pageB11:In the second year of a three-year contract, Boggs will be 36 on June 15, but he's not ready to consider theR word—retirement.
1996, Scott Bradfield,Animal Planet[15], quoted in NYT book review:Winter came early that year, and the animals began hearing a lot of"R" words they couldn't pronounce. Words like "recession," "redundancy" and "rationalization."
2007 December 9, Paul J. Lim, “The ‘R’ Word Doesn’t Have to Be So Scary”, inThe New York Times[16]:For investors, there are few things as scary as the“R” word. That’s because, historically, recessions have often wreaked havoc on stock portfolios.
2009 February 12, Greg Bishop, “No Tears This Time: Jets quarterback cites biceps injury”, inThe New York Times[17], pageB13:But never say never, friends make sure to add, knowing that Favre has tossed around theR-word frequently the last three seasons.
2009 July 14, Clyde Haberman, “Democracy in New York: An Accidental Governor? Try Government: NYC”, inThe New York Times[18], pageA23:When he spoke last year at the convention of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People, Gov. David A. Paterson complained about being a victim of racism. He didn't actually use ther-word.
2013 August 26, Harvey Araton, “Federer Deserves Ovation Tour, But Not Just Yet”, inThe New York Times[19]:TheR word no doubt still sounds profane to Roger Federer, but I think I am speaking for most fans of the sport when I say: whenever the time does come for him to exit the stage, some serious advance notice would be appreciated.
2013 October 22, Annie Correal, “New York Today: Round 2”, inThe New York Times[20]:For his part, Mr. de Blasio will probably just keep using theR-word. ¶ “He seems to think the Republican brand is so damaged here in New York City that repeating that over and over is enough to prevent Lhota from picking up support,” Mr. Paulson said.
r-word (third-person singular simple presentr-words,present participler-wording,simple past and past participler-worded)
- (euphemistic) Torape.
- (‘x’-word euphemisms)a-word,b-word,c-word,d-word,e-word,f-word,g-word /G-word,h-word,i-word,j-word,k-word,l-word,m-word,n-word,o-word,p-word,q-word /Q-word,r-word,s-word,t-word,u-word,v-word,w-word,x-word,y-word,z-word;related termsC-bomb,f-bomb,f-slur,L-bomb,n-bomb,Q-slur,r-slur
