2000 February 13, Zipjack, “Women as AFChicks”, inalt.seduction.fast (Usenet):
I will admit that I was having difficulty understanding the gist of the thread in general since you all were talking about femaleAFCness in ways that I have not considered.
2001 October 31, FinaliDentity, “Thanks for everything in this NG - but I just aren't a "player" guys!”, inalt.seduction.fast (Usenet):
AFCness is an addiction, in that it's a detrimental state that creates a certain sense of security in the short term, does not benefit the addict in the long term, but a dependency on that state is very difficult to get rid of.
2006 June 24, Czouch, “About to suffer info overload”, inalt.seduction.fast (Usenet):
AFCness is a very resilient disease. I've heard of many cases where it seemed to be in total remission, but then came back with a vengeance.