Miriam Toews | |
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.jpg) Toews in 2013 | |
| Born | (1964-05-21)May 21, 1964 (age 61)[1] Steinbach, Manitoba, Canada |
| Occupation | Novelist |
| Nationality | Canadian |
| Alma mater | University of Manitoba University of King's College |
| Period | 1990s–present |
| Notable works | A Complicated Kindness (2004) All My Puny Sorrows (2014) Women Talking (2018) |
| Partner | Erik Rutherford |
| Children | Owen Toews Georgia Toews[2] |
Miriam Toews (/ˈteɪvz/ ⓘ; born May 21, 1964)OC OM is a Canadian writer and author of nine books, includingA Complicated Kindness (2004),All My Puny Sorrows (2014), andWomen Talking (2018). She has won a number of literary prizes including theGovernor General's Award for Fiction and theWriters' Trust Engel/Findley Award for her body of work. Toews is also a three-time finalist for theScotiabank Giller Prize and a two-time winner of theRogers Writers' Trust Fiction Prize.
Toews had a leading role in the feature filmSilent Light, written and directed by Mexican filmmakerCarlos Reygadas, and winner of the 2007 CannesJury Prize, an experience that informed her fifth novel,Irma Voth (2011).
Toews lives in Toronto and is an adjunct professor at theUniversity of Toronto in theFaculty of Arts & Science.[3]
Toews grew up inSteinbach,Manitoba,Canada the second daughter ofMennonite parents, both part of theKleine Gemeinde. Through her father, Melvin C. Toews, she is a direct descendant of one of Steinbach's first settlers, Klaas R. Reimer (1837–1906), who arrived in Manitoba in 1874 fromUkraine.[4] Her mother, Elvira Loewen, is a daughter of the late C. T. Loewen, an entrepreneur who founded a lumber business that would becomeLoewen Windows.[5][6][7] As a teenager, Toews rode horses and took part in provincialdressage andbarrel-racing competitions and attended high school at theSteinbach Regional Secondary School. In 2024, a historic plaque was placed in front of Toews's teenage home in Steinbach.[8]
Toews left Steinbach at eighteen, living inMontreal andLondon before settling inWinnipeg. She has aB.A. inFilm Studies from theUniversity of Manitoba, and aBachelor of Journalism degree from theUniversity of King's College,Halifax.
Toews wrote her first novel,Summer of My Amazing Luck (1996), while working as a freelance journalist. The novel explores the evolving friendship of two single mothers in a Winnipeg public housing complex. The novel was developed from a documentary that Toews was preparing forCBC Radio on the subject of welfare mothers.[7][9] It was shortlisted for theStephen Leacock Memorial Medal for Humour, and theMcNally Robinson Book of the Year Award. Toews won the latter prize with her second novel,A Boy of Good Breeding (1998).
Toews has written for CBC'sWireTap,Canadian Geographic,Geist,The Guardian,The New York Times Magazine,Intelligent Life, andSaturday Night. In 1999, she won aNational Magazine Award Gold Medal for Humour.[10] She is the author ofThe X Letters, a series of personal dispatches addressed to the father of her son, which were featured onThis American Life in an episode about missing parents.[11][12]
Toews' father died by suicide in 1998.[7] His death inspired Toews to write a memoir in her father's voice,Swing Low: A Life. The book was greeted as an instant classic in the modern literature on mental illness, and it won theAlexander Kennedy Isbister Award for Non-Fiction and the McNally Robinson Book of the Year Award.[13][14]
Toews' third novel,A Complicated Kindness (2004), is set inEast Village, a small religiousMennonite town much like her native Steinbach. The narrator is Nomi Nickel, a curious, defiant, sardonic sixteen-year-old who dreams of hanging out withLou Reed in the 'real'East Village ofNew York City. She lives alone with her doleful father, after the departure of her older sister and the unexplained disappearance of her mother. Unlike her father, who is a dutiful member of the church, Nomi is rebellious by nature, and her questioning brings her into conflict with the town's various authorities, most notably Hans Rosenfeldt, the sanctimonious church pastor.[15][16]
A Complicated Kindness was highly acclaimed nationally and internationally, with the character of Nomi Nickel invoking comparisons toJ. D. Salinger'sHolden Caulfield.[17][18][19] It won the 2004Governor General's Award for Fiction, described by the jury as "an unforgettable coming-of-age story... melancholic and hopeful, as beautifully complicated as life itself."[20] It was also shortlisted for theScotiabank Giller Prize[21] and longlisted for theInternational Dublin Literary Award.[22] The novel was selected for the 2006 edition ofCanada Reads, the first book by a female writer to win the competition.[23]
The Flying Troutmans (2008) is a road-trip novel narrated by 28-year-old Hattie, who takes charge of her teenage niece and nephew after her sister Min is admitted to a psychiatric ward. Overwhelmed by the responsibility, Hattie enacts an ill-conceived plan to find the kids' long-lost father in California.
The novel was awarded the 2008Rogers Writers' Trust Fiction Prize. The jury described the novel as "a love song to young people trying to navigate the volcanic world of adult emotions."[24] The novel was also longlisted for theOrange Prize for Fiction,[25] and named aGlobe and Mail Best Book.
With her fifth novel,Irma Voth (2011), Toews returned to the Mennonite community to reexamine the ways in which religious communities can limit personal freedom, and how belonging can turn to estrangement when old and new value systems clash. The novel opens in an old-order Mennonite settlement in Mexico'sChihuahuan Desert. Nineteen-year-old Irma Voth has been banished to a neighbouring farm by her strict, religious father after secretly marrying a non-Mennonite Mexican. Her new husband disappears into the drug trade and Irma is left alone to tend to the farm. Her world is transformed when a film-maker fromMexico City arrives to make a film about Mennonites. Irma is hired as a translator for the film's female protagonist, and her involvement with the wildly creative film crew brings her into dangerous conflict with her father, while at the same time helping her better understand her place in the world. When her father's violence escalates and the tragedy that has haunted her family begins to surface, Irma receives the blessing of her mother to flee the encampment, and to take her two younger sisters with her, one of whom is an infant. They eventually settle in Mexico City, where the two older sisters must embrace the ways of the city in order to survive and raise their infant sister.[26][27][28]
Toews has said thatIrma Voth was inspired in part by her experience in playing a lead role inSilent Light, the 2007 film written and directed by Mexican film-makerCarlos Reygadas. Reygadas invited Toews to do a screen test for the role of Esther, a conservative Mennonite wife, after reading her third novel,A Complicated Kindness, and seeing her author photo on the back flap of the book. The film was shot inPlautdietsch, a language neither the director nor Toews fully understood.[29] Toews worked with her mother, a native speaker of Plautdietsch, to deliver her lines phonetically. The film won a number of international awards, including theJury Prize at theCannes Film Festival. Toews was nominated forBest Actress at Mexico'sAriel Awards for her performance, one of nine nominations for the film.[30]
Filmed in the northern Mexican state ofChihuahua, the film depicts the same Mennonite community that features in Toews' novel. "Irma Voth andSilent Light provide interesting counterpoint views of a culture as seen through the eyes of an outsider. Of course Reygadas and the fictional film-maker inIrma Voth portray a society within its insular context, a culture out of time and place, while Toews and Irma Voth have learned to exist in both worlds."[31]
All My Puny Sorrows (2014) recounts the tumultuous relationship of the Von Riesen sisters, Elfrieda and Yolandi, the only children of an intellectual, free-spirited family from a conservative Mennonite community. Yolandi, the novel's narrator, has always lived in her sister's shadow. Whereas Elfrieda is a gifted, beautiful, happily married, and much celebrated concert pianist, Yolandi feels like a failure, with a floundering writing career and teenage children from separate fathers.[32] Yet it is Elfrieda who suffers from acute depression and a desire to die, much like her father before her, who killed himself by stepping in front of a train. When Elfrieda makes a second suicide attempt on the eve of an international concert tour, Yolandi makes it her mission to save her sister, even as Elf begs her to accompany her to a Swiss clinic and enable her death.[33] Yolandi writes: "She wanted to die and I wanted her to live and we were enemies who loved each other."[34][35]
Toews has said that the novel draws heavily on events leading up to the 2010 suicide of her only sibling Marjorie.[36][37]
All My Puny Sorrows received starred reviews inLibrary Journal,Kirkus Reviews, andPublishers Weekly and was a Reference and Users Services Association Notable Book.[38] It also appeared on a number of year-end best-book lists, includingThe Globe and Mail,[39]The Boston Globe,[40]The Washington Post,[41]The New Republic,[42] andThe Daily Telegraph.[43] The novel won the 2014Rogers Writers' Trust Fiction Prize. The jury described it as "a haunting novel of tremendous feeling, beautifully written and profoundly humane... Miriam Toews, a dazzling literary alchemist who manages to summon all the joyous and heart-breaking humanity of her characters, has produced a work of astonishing depth. Reading it is an unforgettable experience."[44] The novel was also awarded Italy's 2015 Sinbad Prize for Foreign Fiction.[45]
All My Puny Sorrows was shortlisted for the 2014Scotiabank Giller Prize,[46] the 2015Folio Prize for Literature,[47] and the 2015Wellcome Book Prize.[48] It was longlisted for the 2015Andrew Carnegie Medal for Excellence in Fiction[49] and the 2016International Dublin Literary Award.[50]
The novel's French translation,Pauvres petits chagrins, was selected for the 2019 edition of Quebec'sLe Combat des livres, where it was defended by writerDeni Ellis Béchard.[51]
Afilm adaptation of the book, directed byMichael McGowan, was released in 2021.[52]
In a note at the start ofWomen Talking (2018), Toews describes the novel as "a reaction through fiction" to the historical events that took place between 2005 and 2009 on theManitoba Colony, a remote Mennonite community in Bolivia. Girls and women would regularly wake up in the mornings to discover they had been sexually violated. The attacks were dismissed as "wild female imagination", or else attributed to ghosts or demons. Eventually it was discovered that a group of colony men had been spraying an anesthetic into neighboring houses at night, rendering everyone unconscious, and raping the women (infants, the elderly and close relatives included). The colony elders, deciding that the case was too difficult to handle themselves, called local police to take the perpetrators into custody.[53]
Toews' novel centers on eight women of varying ages who, in the aftermath of such traumatic events, must determine what to do next. As they see it, they have three options: do nothing; stay and fight; or leave. The stakes are high, and they must come to a decision quickly. The colony men, who are away to post bail for the rapists, will soon be returning. Over the course of two days, in the privacy of a hayloft, the women have a series of fierce philosophical debates. They discuss how they will heal, protect their children, educate their sons, keep their faith, and forgive. The colony's bishop, Peters, has told them that if they refuse to forgive their offenders, they will be denied entry into heaven.[54][55]
The novel is presented as the minutes of the women's meetings, which are taken by August Epp, the colony school-teacher (and the novel's narrator) who has returned to the community after beingexcommunicated. Unlike the women, he has experience of the outside world, and is able to read and write and speak English (the women speak onlyPlautdietsch, an unwritten dialect ofEast Low German). He performs his role of minute taker at the request of Ona Friesen, the object of his unrequited love and his childhood friend, who is one of the eight women in the hayloft. As time runs short for the women, and they begin to put their action plan into motion, August's story is also revealed.[56][57]
The novel was a shortlisted finalist for the Governor General's Award for English-language fiction at the2018 Governor General's Awards,[58] and for the 2019Trillium Book Award.[59]
Afilm adaptation of the book, directed bySarah Polley, and produced by and featuringFrances McDormand,Rooney Mara, andClaire Foy, was released in late 2022.[60][61] At the95th Academy Awards, Polley won the Oscar forBest Adapted Screenplay for her adaptation of Toews' novel.[62]
Toews' eighth novel,Fight Night (2021), focuses on a multigenerational family of women living in Toronto: the feisty, tomboyish nine-year-old Swiv, her heavily pregnant mother (nicknamed Mooshie), and her spirited and extraordinarily lively grandmother Elvira. Recently expelled from school, Swiv helps her grandmother with bathing and chores, accompanies her around the city, and eventually travels with her toFresno, California to meet members of their extended family. In exchange, Swiv learns about what it means to survive through the ups and downs of life, and of her grandmother's story of despair, betrayal, stolen agency, and joy. The novel's structure takes the form of a letter Swiv writes to her absent father about life in the close-knit (yet often dysfunctional) household. As Swiv records her thoughts and observations,Fight Night unspools the pain, laughter, and unconditional love in the three women's stories as they speak to what it takes to fight – painfully, joyously and ferociously – and survive in life.[63][64]
Toews' father, Melvin C. Toews, suffered frombipolar disorder much of his life. He was an active and well-respected elementary school teacher who lobbied to establishSteinbach's first public library. After his death by suicide, the Steinbach Library Board opened the Melvin C. Toews Reading Garden on the grounds of the library he worked to create.[65] Toews' older sister and only sibling, Marjorie, died by suicide in 2010, almost twelve years to the day after their father.[36][66]
Toews' partner isErik Rutherford,[67] the screenwriter for the 2021 filmCharlotte. Her daughter,Georgia Toews, and son, Owen Toews, are both writers. Georgia's debut novel,Hey, Good Luck Out There, was published in 2022,[68] while Owen'sStolen City: Racial Capitalism and the Making of Winnipeg was published in 2019.[69]
| Year | Title | Director | Actor | Consultant | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2007 | Luz silenciosa | Carlos Reygadas | Yes | No | Role: Esther |
| 2021 | All My Puny Sorrows | Michael McGowan | No | No | Based on the novel of the same name. |
| 2022 | Women Talking | Sarah Polley | No | Yes | Based on the novel of the same name. |
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