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| Single byAvril Lavigne | ||||
| from the albumUnder My Skin | ||||
| Released | March 28, 2005 (2005-03-28) | |||
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| Length | 2:59 | |||
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| Producer(s) | Raine Maida | |||
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"He Wasn't" is a song by Canadian singer-songwriterAvril Lavigne, released as the fourth and final single from her second studio album,Under My Skin (2004). The song was written and produced by Lavigne andChantal Kreviazuk. It was not released in the United States; instead, "Fall to Pieces" was released. "He Wasn't" was issued in Australia, Europe, and the United Kingdom and received airplay on Canadian radio.AllMusic highlighted the song as one of the most significantpost-grunge songs of all time.[1]
"He Wasn't" is about an unsuccessful relationship between Lavigne and a man who appears to be treating her badly, such as not even opening the door to her. The song is a fast and up-beat take on the boyfriend "not being good enough" as opposed to Lavigne's slower paced songs fromUnder My Skin on the same matter. On a documentary of the making of the "My Happy Ending" music video, "He Wasn't" plays in the background and Lavigne jokes, "'He wasn't what I wanted'...is that a theme on my record?".[citation needed] Chantal Kreviazuk described the song as "a super-fun, punk, screw-you-to-boys song".[2]
"He Wasn't" was criticized for the shallowness of the lyrics. Sal Cinquemani ofSlant magazine described the song as a "crappy faux-punk tune", mostly because of the lyrical content.[3] David Browne ofEntertainment Weekly described the song as a "bratty kiss-off" and labelled it "boardroom-approved mall punk" noting that it sounded similar to songs on Lavigne's first album,Let Go.[4]
However, "He Wasn't" has also been praised for its loud, catchy nature; Stephen Thomas Erlewine ofAllMusic describes the song as "the fastest, loudest, catchiest, and best song here, and the one closest to the spirit and sound ofLet Go".[5] He also highlighted the song as a 'track pick' in a review of the album,Under My Skin.[5] Rolling Stone was positive "The album's best song, a raucous three-minute sprint called "He Wasn't," has a pretty vacant opening line ("There's not much going on today/I'm really bored") and a simple yet ambiguous chorus: "He wouldn't even open up the door/He never made me feel like I was special." but "The words are full of contempt and self-pity, but she sings them like she doesn't really care."[6] Yahoo Music! wrote: ""He Wasn't" maintains this theme (broken relationship) with a dashing, Clash-style chorus that chastises this young man for not opening doors. Jeez, young women these days - one minute they're wearing stack-heeled DMs and fairy queen ra-ra skirts and the next they give you hell for not acting like your dad."[7]
| Award/Publisher | Year | Category | Result | Ref. |
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| AllMusic | 2012 | Most SignificantPost-grunge Songs of All Time † | Longlisted | [1] |
| MTV Video Music Brazil | 2005 | Best International Video | Nominated | [8] |
In the United Kingdom, "He Wasn't" debuted at number 23 and spent four weeks on the chart.[9] In Australia, it debuted at number 25 and spent six weeks on the chart.[10]
The music video was directed by American duothe Malloys inNew York on December 13, 2004.[11][12] The production duo previously worked on the music video for Lavigne's "Complicated" (2002). Members of Lavigne's backing band, includingEvan Taubenfeld, are featured in the music video.
During the shooting of the music video when the pink slime came out, Lavigne tells that days later her hair was still pink and she needed to redye it because during the next days she was scheduled to have a photoshoot withCosmopolitan and her hair was looking really messy and all pink.[13]
The video features Lavigne singing and her band playing instruments in the background. There are scenes where she dances around wearing white gloves, a pink skirt, and holding amagic wand (she is portraying afairy), and other scenes where she is wearing devil horns on her head (she is portraying thedevil). It turns out that Lavigne and her band are at a video shoot, and later get into afood fight, much to the dismay of the directors - who are played by Lavigne and the band, all dressed up in wigs and suits. Avril then rebels and smashes her guitar into the camera lens, and then into the paper wall, where pink paint splashes out. The video ends with the band dancing and Lavigne doing thesplits.
The song was performed during theBonez Tour (2004-2005) as the opening song of the concert tour. "He Wasn't" has subsequently been included on Lavigne'sthe Best Damn World Tour (2008),Black Star Tour (2011-2012),the Avril Lavigne Tour (2013-2014), andHead Above Water Tour (2019).
Credits and personnel are adapted from the "He Wasn't" CD single liner notes.[14]
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| Chart (2005) | Peak position |
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| Australia (ARIA)[10] | 25 |
| Austria (Ö3 Austria Top 40)[17] | 35 |
| Belgium (Ultratip Bubbling Under Flanders)[18] | 2 |
| Belgium (Ultratip Bubbling Under Wallonia)[19] | 2 |
| Canada CHR/Pop Top 30 (Radio & Records)[20] | 17 |
| Germany (GfK)[21] | 29 |
| Ireland (IRMA)[22] | 35 |
| Netherlands (Dutch Top 40 Tipparade)[23] | 9 |
| Netherlands (Single Top 100)[24] | 99 |
| New Zealand (Recorded Music NZ)[25] | 38 |
| Scotland (OCC)[26] | 25 |
| Switzerland (Schweizer Hitparade)[27] | 43 |
| UK Singles (OCC)[9] | 23 |
| Region | Date | Format | Label | Ref. |
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| United Kingdom | March 28, 2005 | CD | Arista | [28] |
| Australia | April 4, 2005 | [29] | ||
| Germany | April 18, 2005 | [30] |
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