Agender bender is a person who dresses up and presents themselves in a way that defies societal expectations of theirgender, especially as the oppositesex.[1] Bending expectedgender roles may also be called agenderfuck.[2]
The concept of gender bending may have political origins, stemming from movements in the 1960s and 1970s, a guiding principle of which is the idea thatthe personal is political.[3] Some individuals may choose to engage in gender bending as a form of self-expression or to challenge societal norms; in his 1974 article,Genderfuck and Its Delights,[4] Christopher Lonc explained his motivation for performing genderfuck: "I want to criticize and poke fun at the roles of women and of men too. I want to try [to] show how not-normal I can be. I want to ridicule and destroy the whole cosmology of restrictive sex roles andsexual identification."[5]
The termgenderfuck has long been part of thegay vernacular, and started to appear in written documents in the 1970s.Sheidlower cites the definition of the termgender fuck in L Humphreys' 1972 workOut of the Closets: Sociology of Homosexual Liberation as "a form of extendedguerilla theatre". Also quoted is the August 1972 issue ofRolling Stone magazine, in reference to theglam rock style: "The new 'macho'transvestism, called vulgarly 'gender-fuck', a curious satire offemale impersonation – dresses, pumps, full make-up and beards – is represented by, among others, three men inWAC uniforms and big moustaches".[6]
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Gender bending is commonly used as a rebellion against socially constructed expectations of gender and gender roles, which can vary widely between cultures, though commonly include some variation of thegender binary – the idea that only two genders exist: men and women. In many cultures, it is only acceptable for an individual to embody one of these two gender roles, which often mimic the social expectations of the sexual categories of "male" and "female". Within this cultural expectation, people designated as male are expected to be masculine, while those designated female are expected to be feminine.[7] The belief in and subscription to polar gender roles is known as "gender binarism".
In many cultures, for a person to be seen as belonging to a particular gender category, the individual must not only have a particular anatomical (including genital) makeup, but must conform to that culture's ideas of appropriate sex role stereotypes. These roles are highly influenced by culture and peers.[8] This sex role stereotype includes sexual orientation. To this end, those who go against expected conduct, for examplegays andlesbians, may be seen as "less than" or "other".[9]
InWestern cultures, gender roles have changed over many centuries, though mainstream Western culture still tends to expect stereotypical "feminine" behaviors from females, and "masculine" sex role stereotypes from males. A study byPrinceton University outlined these common, prescriptive gender stereotypes:
InChristian andJewish cultures, gender roles and gender presentation have formed part of scriptural texts and religious teachings for thousands of years: "The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment; for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God" (KJV,Deut. 22:5). Crossing these lines has been interpreted by some Christians as a moral transgression.[11] Jewish law, orhalacha, recognizes ambiguous and non-conforming genders in addition to male and female.[12][13] Rabbinical literature recognizes six different genders, defined according to the development and presentation of primary and secondary sex characteristics at birth and later in life.[14] Jewish literature describes what today would be referred to as intersex such as the concept of aTumtum being a person of ambiguous gender and/or sex as is the concept of theandrogynos, being a person characterized with elements of both sexes. One aspect ofgender and Jewish studies is considering how the ambiguity recognized in Rabbinical literature has been erased and constructed into a binary and how this translates into Jewish practices.[15]
Other cultures – oftenindigenous peoples, orsubcultures that exist within Western cultures – may conceptualize gender as havingmore than two options, and even see their people as potentially fulfilling more than one gender role. Someindigenous peoples of North America have historically hadmore than two gender roles as part of their social structure,[16] while others, who may or may not have embraced this diversity historically, may accept moderntwo spirit people as part of their communities now.[17] Other cultures may see people as being capable of embodying more than one gender role at different times,[16] or of being "in the middle", "embracing both male and female spirit".[18] One such example is theBugis people ofSouth Sulawesi,Indonesia. People of theBugis society have a total of five genders. These genders include what would traditionally be seen as cisgender man and woman, as well as transgender men and women, and the androgynousBissu shamans.[19]
Often,parody and exaggeration are used to transgressgender roles, usually to expose them as artificial.[20] For example, a person who engages in gender bending may purposefully exaggerate conventional notions offemininity, ormasculinity. Gender bending can also be achieved throughcross-dressing andandrogyny, both of which challenge and contribute to dismantling the gender binary by separating expression or performance of gender from perceptions ofbiological orphysiological sex. Thus, gender bending protestsgender essentialism. This concept is protested not only through non-normative appearance, but by challenging normative gender roles, characteristics, or behaviors as well – for example, a female-bodied individual who is purposefully assertive and nondomestic in order to challenge the notion of essential femininity. Gender bending is based ingender performativity: the concept of gender as a performance. It can be achieved through physical presentation (e.g. clothing, hair, makeup, and secondary sex characteristics), as well as behavior. Because much of gender performance is expressed through clothing, in societies where a gender binary can be observed, there is an established, widespread notion that some clothes are "masculine" and should be worn only by male-bodied individuals, and others are "feminine" and should be worn only by female-bodied individuals. Hawkes, sociologist and author, addresses this "dress code" and the opportunity for a resistance: "The universality of [dress] codes and their meanings allows for the [subversion of] the mainstream 'messages' they convey and through this to illuminate the existence of alternative [gender] identities."[21]
Cross-dressing would be a form of gender bending because the purpose is to "fuck with gender" roles and presentation.Androgyny is not specifically gender bending, but it can be considered as such if someone is being androgynous on purpose.[citation needed] The origin of the word "androgynous" is from the Greekandrogynos: "male and female in one; womanish man; common to men and women".[22] Androgyny as a form of gender expression may present as a blended unification of masculine and feminine traits, with the goal of making one's sex indiscernible, or as a dichotomous mix juxtaposing male and femalephenotypes, with the goal of transgressing gender norms.[23]
There have been many famous people who have cross-dressed and many famous people now who are androgynous. The rock starPrince was very well known for his cross-dressing or androgynous look.Eddie Izzard started to freely talk about her cross-dressing as early as 1992.[24]
Shakespeare used cross-dressing in his performances. Over the centuries some readers have posited that Shakespeare's sonnets are autobiographical, and point to them as evidence of his love for a young man.[citation needed] Shakespeare had characters in his writings that were considered cross-dressers. The four of the five main female characters in his plays were seen as women who cross-dress as men or boys: Cleopatra inAntony and Cleopatra, Portia inThe Merchant of Venice, Rosalind inAs You Like It, Viola inTwelfth Night.[25]
The Museum of Fine Arts in Boston hosted an exhibit calledGender Bending Fashion.[26] One of the main goals was to explore fashion in a way that confronted gender-norms relating to dress. Gender bending design within this exhibition included clothes traditionally worn by women tailored for men, traditionally men's clothes tailored for women, clothes designed to be gender-ambiguous, and agender clothes designed to be worn by anyone.[26]
Drag shows are stage performances where people perform indrag. Drag costuming and makeup may in some cases simply involve an actor portraying a character of a sex or gender different from their own, or the performance itself may be a parody or critique of gender and gender roles. Often "feminine" or "masculine" gender stereotypes of the person's culture are exaggerated for comic or satirical effect. Performers may call themselvesdrag kings ordrag queens. Drag revues typically involve elaborate, glamorous costumes and musical performances. The entertainers may sing, dance, orlip sync.[27]
A faux drag performer is a person who performs as the gender they identify as in day-to-day life, albeit in a usually exaggerated form. For instance a cisgender woman who performs as a drag queen is afaux queen.[28]
Rupp et al. noted in 2010 that "In order to understand the differences and similarities between gay male drag queens and female-bodied and transgender drag kings and bio queens, we consider how the personal gender and sexual identities of drag performers affect and are affected by their gender performances in drag."[29][further explanation needed]
Literature, in particularerotica, is another method that has been used to explore genderfuck scenarios. The basis of the literary genre of genderfuck is that it is unimportant whether someone is a man or a woman during the sex act, an idea which challenges for example theCatholic theology of sexuality. Doris Libetseder points toCarol Queen's short storyThe Leather Daddy and the Femme, where a lesbianfemme uses astrap-on dildo to have sex with a gay leatherdaddy as a fitting example of the genderfuck genre.[30]
It was noted as early as May 2019 that the software productSnapchat had photograph filters that make it easy to perform a gender bender on the subjects of photographs, especially those taken onhandheld devices likesmartphones.[31]
Gender bending is not always a purposeful political standpoint. According to Butler, gender is something that isperformed; it only holds cultural significance to the extent that this is ascribed to it. Despite thegender binary roles society imposes, there are many ways for individuals to express gender variation and not all of them are intentionallypolitical radicalism.[32] Further, in 1995 Tamsin Wilton argued that:
Gender-fuck is not intrinsically radical – otherwise gender-benders such asBoy George,Prince,Annie Lennox,David Bowie etc. would not get away with it to the extent that they do. A politically aware gender-fuck – such as that ofRuPaul or (to a limited extent)Madonna – gets much closer to radicalism, but it is only by incorporating a critique of genderas an axis of power that playing about with gender signifiers can be more than wickedly entertaining.[33]
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Judith Butler is a theorist who believes the idea that gender is something that is performed by individuals. Their concept of "gender performativity" is the idea that people choose to perform gender in a context in which we are given very few socially acceptable choices, but can be explained as being similar to what actors do in front of the camera. Due to the importance we place on the belief that men need to act like men and women need to behave like women, it is often believed that gender is an innate attribute and not a social construct. In their articlePerformative Acts and Gender Constitution: An Essay in Phenomenology and Feminist Theory, Butler explains that if gender is something that sexed bodies assimilate to in order to follow the societal codes of what is appropriate behavior, then those actions can be conceptualized in different ways to allow more flexibility for individuals. In the same article, they assert that in American culture, there is a gender binary along with strict social repercussions against those that act against the "normal" script. This script is policed by harassment, parental pressures to fill expectations, and peer influence. All of these are ways to guarantee that the culture will repeat itself from generation to generation.[32]
Butler's theory about gender roles and their social implications and need for reconstruction is developed in their book,Gender Trouble (1990) in which they argue that the limited acceptance of variation in gender roles does great harm to individual expression. With the limited options for both men and women, there is little room for their combined forces, because men are constantly focused on becoming the financial supporters of their families which leaves women with the sole option of being the maternal experts they is expected to be. This idea excludes the masculine women or feminine men from being acceptable parental figures for their children because it may lead to a child growing up and conceptualizing the world differently.[32]
According to Susan Witt's 1997 study, children generally come to their first conclusions about being male or female from their parents since typically they are the first people the child relates to and the nature of the relationship is intense. Besides parents giving children gender specific clothing, toys, and expectations, there are often many subtle messages about what is acceptable or not regarding gender. Witt's study showed that children that grow up with moreandrogynous gendered parents are more focused on achievements and typically have a better sense of self.[34] Conversely, in cases of gender nonconformity, when a child exhibitsgender performances that are atypical of their prescribed gender role, Kerry Robinson and Cristyn Davies report that a parental figure may respond with hostility.[35] According to Roberts et al. inPediatrics, people who do not conform to thegender binary are often subject to abuse from society, from within the family and within their community. Types of abuse range fromphysical andsexual topsychological abuse.[36]
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TheCockettes were apsychedelicdrag queen troupe, founded in San Francisco in the late 1960s. According to the journalMaledicta in 1987: "Real transvestites and transsexuals are... embarrassed... [by]... The genderfuck Cockettes and such (in dresses and beards)."[6]
Credited as one of the innovators of the early 70'sglam rock era, lead singer and guitaristMarc Bolan of rock bandT. Rex was dubbed 'feminine looking'. He was known for his volumized curly hair, vibrant wardrobe and experimentation with glittery make-up and eyeliner. As well as this, he wore platform boots and feather boas during his performances.[37]
Exploiting hisandrogynous appearance, rock starDavid Bowie wore a dress on the UK cover of his 1970 album,The Man Who Sold the World, and often wore dresses, makeup and leotards both onstage and while doing interviews. In a time when very few people were out, he announced he and his wife were both bisexual.[38][39] In 1972 Bowie co-producedLou Reed's albumTransformer, which includes several gender bending songs, notably the classic, "Walk on the Wild Side".
TheNew York Dolls are aprotopunk band, formed in 1971 and who were very influential in the early New York Citypunk rock scene. They broke up in 1977 but reformed in 2004. While they often performed in dresses, long hair andglitter/glam makeup, at least one reviewers called their genderfuck "quite subtle".[6]
Dr. Frank-N-Furter from the 1973 musical,The Rocky Horror Show, and later the cult film / midnight movie,Rocky Horror Picture Show, is a male bodied person but wears lingerie, clothing, and accessories considered feminine in the English and American culture of the era. The character also wears heavy make-up influenced by 1940s female film stars likeJoan Crawford. In one of the songs featured in the musical Dr. Frank-N-Furter sings, "I'm just a sweettransvestite fromTranssexual, Transylvania."
Prince wrote many songs that dealt with ambiguity – of gender, of sexuality, and of race.[40] A charismatic entertainer and prolific songwriter, his songs with bisexual content have also been recorded by artists such asCyndi Lauper, who in "When You Were Mine", sang about sharing a lover with another man, who was in bed with them, "sleeping in between the two of us".
According toSheWired,Grace Jones laughs at outside attempts to define her gender identity.[41] Jones herself has said of her gender ambiguity that she feels her masculine side is "a bit stronger".[42]NPR cites her as an influence onMadonna andLady Gaga.[43]
Singer-songwriter and political activistAnnie Lennox began her career as lead singer withThe Tourists in the late 1970s. In the 1980s she frontedsynthpop band theEurythmics but has focused on solo work since the 1990s with the exception of an album and tour with Eurythmics in 1999. TheSpin Alternative Record Guide described her in 1995 as "Gender-fuck goddess Annie Lennox".[6]
The American singer-songwriter and artistPhranc began her career in 1978 with punk bandNervous Gender. In 1985Village Voice wrote: "Part of Phranc's appeal is the genderfuck of her sweet feminine voice coming from such a masculine frame."[6] She later worked withqueercore bandTeam Dresch.
The charity, protest andstreet performance organizationSisters of Perpetual Indulgence was formed bygay men in 1979, originally using nuns' attire andhigh camp to draw attention to social conflicts inthe Castro, San Francisco. Currently they fundraise forAIDS and otherLGBT causes and promote and educate onsafer sex issues. TheCambridge Guide to American Theater identified them as one of the "more anarchic uses of "gender-fuck"... [which]... "parodied traditional drag".[44]
Boy George of the 1980s bandCulture Club, has cultivated an androgynous style, and was part ofthe English New Romantic movement which emerged in the early 1980s. He famously stated, "I can do anything. InGQ, I appeared as a man."[citation needed]
American drag queen, singer, actor, and host/star ofRuPaul's Drag Race,RuPaul got his start by performing in genderfuck, performance art, music videos and punk bands in Atlanta in the late 1980s and early 1990s.[citation needed]
Pat, a character from the television showSaturday Night Live, served as the basis for the movieIt's Pat. The sketches and film feature an androgynous main character, Pat. People are unable to determine Pat's sex, including one male who cannot determine their gender after having sex with Pat while stranded on a deserted island.[citation needed]
At least one writer saysMarilyn Manson's gender-bending rock act "shows trans identities can resonate with the public in a way that cannot be ghettoised".[45] Manson's gender-bending has been compared to that ofAlice Cooper[46] and Bowie.[47]
Eddie Izzard started to freely talk about her transvestism in venues likeEdinburgh Festival as early as 1992. Her stance is that cross-dressing is neither part of her performance nor a sexual fetish. She remarks in her showUnrepeatable, "Women wear what they want and so do I." According to Izzard, "Most transvestites fancy women." She identifies as "a straight transvestite or a male lesbian". She has also described herself as "a lesbian trapped in a man's body",[48] transgender, and "a complete boy plus half girl".[49]
Lady Gaga is very specific in what she wears and even states that, "But in a sense, I portray myself in a very androgynous way, and I love androgyny."[50]
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