
Courtly love (Occitan:fin'amor[finaˈmuɾ];French:amour courtois[amuʁkuʁtwa]) was amedieval European literary conception of love that emphasized nobility andchivalry. Medieval literature is filled with examples of knights setting out on adventures and performing various deeds or services for ladies because of their "courtly love". This kind of love was originally aliterary fiction created for the entertainment of the nobility, but as time passed, these ideas about love spread topopular culture and attracted a larger literate audience. In theHigh Middle Ages, a "game of love" developed around these ideas as a set of social practices. "Loving nobly" was considered to be an enriching and improving practice.[1][2]
Courtly love began in theducal and princely courts ofAquitaine,Provence,Champagne,ducal Burgundy and theNorman Kingdom of Sicily[3] at the end of the eleventh century. In essence, courtly love was an experience betweenerotic desire and spiritual attainment, "a love at once illicit and morally elevating, passionate anddisciplined, humiliating and exalting, human andtranscendent".[4] The topic was prominent with both musicians and poets, being frequently used bytroubadours,trouvères andMinnesänger. The topic was also popular with major writers, includingDante,Petrarch andGeoffrey Chaucer.
The term "courtly love" appears in only one extant source:Provençalcortez amors in a late 12th-century poem byPeire d'Alvernhe.[5]
It is associated with theProvençal termfin'amor ("fine love") which appears frequently in poetry, as well as its German translationhohe Minne.[5] Provençal also uses the termsverai'amors,bon'amors.[6]
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The modern use of the term "courtly love" comes fromGaston Paris. He used the termamour courtois ("courtly love") in a 1883 article discussing the relationship betweenLancelot andGuinevere inChrétien de Troyes'sLancelot, the Knight of the Cart (c. 1181).[7] In his article, Paris outlined four principal characteristics ofamour courtois:
Paris used it as a descriptive phrase, not a technical term, and used it interchangeably with the phraseamour chevaleresque. Nonetheless, other scholars began using it as a technical term after him.
In 1896,Lewis Freeman Mott applied the term "courtly love" toDante Alighieri's love for Beatrice inLa Vita Nuova (1294).[8] The two relationships are very different — Lancelot and Guinevere are secret adulterous lovers, while Dante and Beatrice had no actual romantic relationship and only met twice in their whole lives. Nonetheless, the manner in which the two men describe their devotion to and quasi-religious adoration of their ladies is similar.
In 1936,C. S. Lewis wroteThe Allegory of Love which popularized the term "courtly love". He defined it as a "love of a highly specialized sort, whose characteristics may be enumerated as Humility, Courtesy, Adultery, and the Religion of Love".[12]
In 1964,Moshe Lazar differentiated three separate categories within "courtly love".[13]
Scholars debate whether "courtly love" constitutes a coherent idea.
D. W. Robertson Jr. said, "the connotations of the termcourtly love are so vague and flexible that its utility for purposes of definition has become questionable."[14] John C. Moore called it "a term used for a number of different, in some cases contradictory, conceptions" and called it "a mischievous term which should be abandoned".[15] Roger Boase admitted the term "has been subjected to a bewildering variety of uses and definitions", but nonetheless defended the concept of courtly love as real and useful.[6]
E. Talbot Donaldson criticized its usage as a technical term as ananachronism orneologism.[16]
Richard Trachsler says that "the concept of courtly literature is linked to the idea of the existence of courtly texts, texts produced and read by men and women sharing some kind of elaborate culture they all have in common". He argues that many of the texts that scholars claim to be courtly also include "uncourtly" texts, and argues that there is no clear way to determine "where courtliness ends and uncourtliness starts" because readers would enjoy texts which were supposed to be entirely courtly without realizing they were also enjoying texts which were uncourtly. This presents a clear problem in the understanding of courtliness.[17]


The practice of courtly love developed in thecastle life of four regions:Aquitaine,Provence,Champagne andducal Burgundy, from around the time of theFirst Crusade (1099).Eleanor of Aquitaine (1124–1204) brought ideals of courtly love from Aquitaine first to the court of France, then to England (she became queen-consort in each of these two realms in succession). Her daughterMarie, Countess of Champagne (1145–1198) brought courtly behavior to theCount of Champagne's court. Courtly love found expression in the lyric poems written bytroubadours, such asWilliam IX, Duke of Aquitaine (1071–1126), one of the first troubadour poets.
Poets adopted the terminology offeudalism, declaring themselves thevassal of the lady. The troubadour's model of the ideal lady was the wife of his employer or lord, a lady of higher status, usually the rich and powerful female head of the castle. When her husband was away onCrusade or elsewhere she dominated the household and cultural affairs; sometimes this was the case even when the husband was at home. The poet gave voice to the aspirations of thecourtier class, for only those who were noble could engage in courtly love. This new kind of love saw nobility not based on wealth and family history, but on character and actions; such asdevotion,piety,gallantry, thus appealing to poorer knights who saw an avenue for advancement.
By the late 12th centuryAndreas Capellanus' highly influential workDe amore had codified the rules of courtly love.De amore lists such rules as:[18]
Much of its structure and its sentiments derived fromOvid'sArs amatoria.[19]
One theory holds that courtly love in Southern France was influenced byArabic poetry inAl-Andalus.
In contemporary Andalusian writing,Ṭawq al-Ḥamāmah (The Ring of the Dove) byIbn Hazm is a treatise on love which emphasizes restraint and chastity.Tarjumān al-Ashwāq (The Translator of Desires) byIbn Arabi is a collection of love poetry. Outside of Al-Andalus,Kitab al-Zahra (Book of the Flower) byIbn Dawud andRisala fi'l-Ishq (Treatise of Love) byIbn Sina are roughly contemporary treaties on love. Ibn Arabi and Ibn Sina both weave together themes of sensual love with divine love.[20]
According toGustave E. von Grunebaum, notions of "love for love's sake" and "exaltation of the beloved lady" can be traced back to Arabic literature of the 9th and 10th centuries. The ennobling power of love is overtly discussed inRisala fi'l-Ishq.[21]
According to an argument outlined byMaría Rosa Menocal inThe Arabic Role in Medieval Literary History (1987), in 11th-century Spain, a group of wandering poets appeared who would go from court to court, and sometimes travel to Christian courts in southern France, a situation closely mirroring what would happen in southern France about a century later. Contacts between these Spanish poets and the French troubadours were frequent. The metrical forms used by the Spanish poets resembled those later used by the troubadours.[22]
The historic analysis of courtly love varies between different schools of historians. That sort of history which views the early Middle Ages dominated by a prudish and patriarchal theocracy views courtly love as a "humanist" reaction to the puritanical views of the Catholic Church.[23][note 1] Scholars who endorse this view value courtly love for its exaltation of femininity as an ennobling, spiritual, and moral force, in contrast to the ironclad chauvinism of the first and second estates.[5] The condemnation of courtly love in the beginning of the 13th century by the church as heretical, is seen by these scholars as the Church's attempt to put down this "sexual rebellion".[5][23]
However, other scholars note that courtly love was certainly tied to the Church's effort to civilize the crude Germanic feudal codes in the late 11th century. It has also been suggested that the prevalence of arranged marriages required other outlets for the expression of more personal occurrences of romantic love, and thus it was not in reaction to the prudery or patriarchy of the Church but to the nuptial customs of the era that courtly love arose.[24] In the Germanic cultural world, a special form of courtly love can be found, namelyMinne.
At times, the lady could be aprincesse lointaine, a far-away princess, and some tales told of men who had fallen in love with women whom they had never seen, merely on hearing their perfection described, but normally she was not so distant. As theetiquette of courtly love became more complicated, the knight might wear the colors of his lady: where blue or black were sometimes the colors of faithfulness, green could be a sign of unfaithfulness. Salvation, previously found in the hands of the priesthood, now came from the hands of one's lady. In some cases, there were also women troubadours who expressed the same sentiment for men.
The literary convention of courtly love can be found in most of the major authors of the Middle Ages, such asGeoffrey Chaucer,John Gower,Dante,Marie de France,Chretien de Troyes,Gottfried von Strassburg andThomas Malory. The medievalgenres in which courtly love conventions can be found include thelyric, theromance and theallegory.
Courtly love was born in the lyric, first appearing with Provençal poets in the 11th century, including itinerant and courtlyminstrels such as the French troubadours andtrouvères, as well as the writers of lays. Texts about courtly love, including lays, were often set to music by troubadours or minstrels. According to scholar Ardis Butterfield, courtly love is "the air which many genres of troubadour song breathe".[25] Not much is known about how, when, where, and for whom these pieces were performed, but we can infer that the pieces were performed at court by troubadours, trouvères, or the courtiers themselves. This can be inferred because people at court were encouraged or expected to be "courtly" and be proficient in many different areas, including music.[citation needed]
It is difficult to know how and when these songs were performed because most of the information on these topics is provided in the music itself. One lay, the "Lay of Lecheor", says that after a lay was composed, "Then the lay was preserved / Until it was known everywhere / For those who were skilled musicians / On viol, harp and rote / Carried it forth from that region…"[26] Scholars have to then decide whether to take this description as truth or fiction.
Period examples of performance practice, of which there are few, show a quiet scene with a household servant performing for the king or lord and a few other people, usually unaccompanied.[citation needed] According to scholar Christopher Page, whether or not a piece was accompanied depended on the availability of instruments and people to accompany—in a courtly setting.[27] For troubadours or minstrels, pieces were often accompanied by fiddle, also called avielle, or aharp.[citation needed] Courtly musicians also played the vielle and the harp, as well as different types ofviols andflutes.
This French tradition spread later to the GermanMinnesänger, such asWalther von der Vogelweide andWolfram von Eschenbach,[5] and to the troubadours of the Iberian peninsula, seeGalician-Portuguese lyric. It also influenced theSicilian School of Italian vernacular poetry, as well asPetrarch andDante.[28]

The vernacular poetry of theromans courtois, orcourtly romances, included many examples of courtly love. Some of them are set within the cycle of poems celebratingKing Arthur's court. This was a literature of leisure, directed to a largely female audience for the first time in European history.[5]
Allegory is common in the romantic literature of the Middle Ages, and it was often used to interpret what was already written. There is a strong connection between religious imagery and human sexual love in medieval writings.
The tradition of medieval allegory began in part with the interpretation of theSong of Songs in the Bible. Some medieval writers thought that the book should be taken literally as an erotic text; others believed that the Song of Songs was a metaphor for the relationship between Christ and the church and that the book could not even exist without that as its metaphorical meaning. Still others claimed that the book was written literally about sex but that this meaning must be "superseded by meanings related to Christ, to the church and to the individual Christian soul".[29]
Marie de France'slai "Eliduc" toys with the idea that human romantic love is a symbol for God's love when two people love each other so fully and completely that they leave each other for God, separating and moving to different religious environments.[30] Furthermore, the main character's first wife leaves her husband and becomes a nun so that he can marry his new lover.[30]
Allegorical treatment of courtly love is also found in theRoman de la Rose byGuillaume de Lorris andJean de Meun.[31] In it, a man becomes enamored with an individual rose on a rosebush, attempting to pick it and finally succeeding. The rose represents the female body, but the romance also contains lengthy digressive "discussions on free will versus determinism as well as on optics and the influence of heavenly bodies on human behavior".[31]
Courtly love introubadour poetry is associated with the wordmidons.[11][5]Midons comes from theLatin phrase "my lord",mihidominus.[32] Themi part is alternatively interpreted as coming frommeus[32] ormia, though the meaning is unchanged regardless.[33]
Troubadours beginning withGuilhem de Poitou[34] would address the lady asmidons, flattering her by addressing her as his lord and also serving as an ambiguous code-name.[5]
By refusing to disclose his lady's name, the troubadour permitted every woman in the audience, notably the patron's wife, to think that it was she; then, besides making her the object of a secret passion—it wasalways covert romance—by making her his lord he flashed her an aggrandized image of herself. She was more than "just" a woman: She was a man.
— Meg Bogin[34]
These points of multiple meaning and ambiguity facilitated a "coquetry of class", allowing the male troubadours to use the images of women as a means to gain social status with other men, but simultaneously, Bogin suggests, voiced deeper longings for the audience: "In this way, the sexual expressed the social and the social the sexual; and in the poetry of courtly love the static hierarchy of feudalism was uprooted and transformed to express a world of motion and transformation."[35]
Through such routes as Capellanus's record of the Courts of Love[36] and the later works ofPetrarchism (as well as the continuing influence of Ovid),[5] the themes of courtly love were not confined to the medieval, but appear both in serious and comic forms in early modern Europe. Shakespeare'sRomeo and Juliet, for example, shows Romeo attempting to love Rosaline in an almost contrived courtly fashion while Mercutio mocks him for it; and both in his plays and his sonnets the writer can be seen appropriating the conventions of courtly love for his own ends.[37]
Paul Gallico's 1939 novelThe Adventures of Hiram Holliday depicts a Romantic modern American consciously seeking to model himself on the ideal medieval knight. Among other things, when finding himself in Austria in the aftermath of theAnschluss, he saves aHabsburg princess who is threatened by the Nazis, acts towards her in strict accordance with the maxims of courtly love and finally wins her after fighting a duel with her aristocratic betrothed.
A point of ongoing controversy about courtly love is to what extent it was sexual. All courtly love was erotic to some degree, and not purely platonic—the troubadours speak of the physical beauty of their ladies and the feelings and desires the ladies arouse in them. However, it is unclear what a poet should do: live a life of perpetual desire channeling his energies to higher ends, or physically consummate. Scholars have seen it both ways.
Denis de Rougemont said that the troubadours were influenced byCathar doctrines which rejected the pleasures of the flesh and that they were metaphorically addressing the spirit and soul of their ladies. Rougemont also said that courtly love subscribed to the code ofchivalry, and therefore a knight's loyalty was always to his king before his mistress.[24] Edmund Reiss claimed it was also a spiritual love, but a love that had more in common with Christian love, orcaritas.[38] On the other hand, scholars such as Mosché Lazar claim it was adulterous sexual love, with physical possession of the lady the desired end.[13]
Many scholars identify courtly love as the "pure love" described in 1184 by Capellanus inDe amore:
It is the pure love which binds together the hearts of two lovers with every feeling of delight. This kind consists in the contemplation of the mind and the affection of the heart; it goes as far as the kiss and the embrace and the modest contact with the nude lover, omitting the final solace, for that is not permitted for those who wish to love purely.... That is called mixed love which gets its effect from every delight of the flesh and culminates in the final act of Venus.[18]
On the other hand, continual references to beds and sleeping in the lover's arms in medieval sources such as the troubadouralbas and romances such asChrétien'sLancelot imply at least in some cases a context of actual sexual intercourse.
Within the corpus of troubadour poems there is a wide range of attitudes, even across the works of individual poets. Some poems are physically sensual, even bawdily imagining nude embraces, while others are highly spiritual and border on the platonic.[5]
A continued point of controversy is whether courtly love was purely literary or was actually practiced in real life. There are no historical records that offer evidence of its presence in reality. HistorianJohn F. Benton found no documentary evidence in law codes, court cases, chronicles or other historical documents.[39] However, the existence of the non-fiction genre ofcourtesy books is perhaps evidence for its practice. For example, according toChristine de Pizan's courtesy bookBook of the Three Virtues (c. 1405), which expresses disapproval of courtly love, the convention was being used to justify and cover up illicit love affairs.Philip le Bon, in hisFeast of the Pheasant in 1454, relied onparables drawn from courtly love to incite his nobles to swear to participate in an anticipated crusade, while well into the 15th century numerous actual political and social conventions were largely based on the formulas dictated by the "rules" of courtly love.[citation needed]
A point of controversy was the existence of "courts of love", first mentioned byAndreas Capellanus. These were supposed courts made up of tribunals staffed by 10 to 70 women who would hear a case of love and rule on it based on the rules of love. In the 19th century, historians took the existence of these courts as fact, but later historians such as Benton noted "none of the abundant letters, chronicles, songs and pious dedications" suggest they ever existed outside of the poetic literature.[39] Likewise,feminist historianEmily James Putnam wrote in 1910 that, secrecy being "among the lover's first duties" in the ideology of courtly love, it is "manifestly absurd to suppose that a sentiment which depended on concealment for its existence should be amenable to public inquiry".[40] According to Diane Bornstein, one way to reconcile the differences between the references to courts of love in the literature, and the lack of documentary evidence in real life, is that they were like literary salons or social gatherings, where people read poems, debated questions of love, and played word games of flirtation.[5]
Theologians of the time emphasized love as more of a spiritual rather than sexual connection.[41] There is a possibility that writings about courtly love were made as a response to thetheological ideas about love. Many scholars believe that Andreas Capellanus' workDe amore was a satire poking fun at doctors and theologians. In that work, Capellanus is supposedly writing to a young man named Walter, and he spends the first two books telling him how to achieve love and setting forth the rules of love. However, in the third book he tells Walter that the only way to live his life correctly is to shun love in favor of God. This sudden change is what has sparked the interest of many scholars,[15] leading some to regard the first two books as satirizing courtly love and only the third book as expressing Capellanus' actual beliefs.[42]

(Adapted fromBarbara W. Tuchman)[43]
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