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TheBixby letter is a brief, consoling message sent byPresidentAbraham Lincoln in November 1864 to Lydia Parker Bixby, a widow living inBoston,Massachusetts, who was thought to have lost five sons in theUnion army during theAmerican Civil War. Along with theGettysburg Address and hissecond inaugural address, the letter has been praised as one of Lincoln's finest written works and is often reproduced in memorials, media, and print.
Controversy surrounds the recipient, the fate of her sons, and the authorship of the letter. Bixby's character has been questioned (including rumoredConfederate sympathies), at least two of her sons survived the war, and the letter was possibly written by Lincoln's assistant private secretary,John Hay.

President Lincoln's letter of condolence was delivered to Lydia Bixby on November 25, 1864, and was printed in theBoston Evening Transcript andBoston Evening Traveller that afternoon.[1][2][3] The following is the text of the letter as first published:[a][1]
Executive Mansion,
Washington, Nov. 21, 1864.Dear Madam,
I have been shown in the files of the War Department a statement of the Adjutant General of Massachusetts, that you are the mother of five sons who have died gloriously on the field of battle.
I feel how weak and fruitless must be any words of mine which should attempt to beguile you from the grief of a loss so overwhelming. But I cannot refrain from tendering to you the consolation that may be found in the thanks of the Republic they died to save.
I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours, to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of Freedom.
Yours, very sincerely and respectfully,
A. Lincoln.Mrs. Bixby.

Lydia Parker married shoemaker Cromwell Bixby on September 26, 1826, inHopkinton, Massachusetts. The couple had at least six sons and three daughters before Cromwell's death in 1854. Some time before the Civil War, Bixby and her family settled in Boston.[4]
On September 24, 1864,Massachusetts Adjutant GeneralWilliam Schouler wrote toMassachusetts GovernorJohn Albion Andrew about adischarge request sent to the governor by Otis Newhall, the father of fiveUnion soldiers. In the letter, Schouler recalled how, two years prior, they had helped a poor widow named Lydia Bixby to visit a son who was a patient at a Union army hospital. About ten days earlier, Bixby had come to Schouler's office claiming that five of her sons had died fighting for the Union. Governor Andrew forwarded Newhall's request to theU.S. War Department with a note requesting that the president honor Bixby with a letter.[5]
In response to a War Department request of October 1, Schouler sent a messenger to Bixby's home six days later, asking for the names and units of her sons. He sent a report to the War Department on October 12, which was delivered to President Lincoln bySecretary of WarEdwin Stanton sometime after October 28.[6][7]
On November 21, both theBoston Evening Traveller and theBoston Evening Transcript published an appeal by Schouler for contributions to assist soldiers' families atThanksgiving which mentioned a widow who had lost five sons in the war.[8][9] Schouler had some of the donations given to Bixby and then visited her home on Thanksgiving, November 24. The letter from the President arrived at Schouler's office the next morning.[2][10]

At least two of Lydia Bixby's sons survived the war:
Schouler's report to the War Department erroneously listed Edward as a member of the22nd Massachusetts Infantry who had died of his wounds atFolly Island,South Carolina.[24][2] Bixby may have been trying to conceal—possibly from embarrassment or hope of further financial aid—Edward's 1862 desertion. (She had been receiving a pension following Charles's death in 1863.)[25]
At the time of her September meeting with Schouler, Bixby's son George had been a prisoner of war for just over a month, and Henry was still hospitalized following his exchange.[26] The War Department failed to use its own records to correct errors in the Schouler report.[27]
Lydia Bixby died in Boston on October 27, 1878, while a patient atMassachusetts General Hospital. In his initial letter to Governor Andrew, Schouler called Bixby "the best specimen of a true-hearted Union woman I have yet seen,"[28] but in the years following her death both her character and loyalty were questioned.[29][30]
Writing to her daughter in 1904, Boston socialite Sarah Cabot Wheelwright claimed she had met and had given charitable aid to Lydia Bixby during the war, hoping that one of her sons, in Boston on leave, might help deliver packages to Union prisoners of war; but she later heard gossip that Bixby "kept ahouse of ill-fame, was perfectly untrustworthy and as bad as she could be".[31][32]
In the 1920s, Lincoln scholar William E Barton interviewed the oldest residents of Hopkinton, Massachusetts for their memories of Bixby's family before she moved to Boston. They recalled her sons as being "tough" with "some of them too fond of drink". One son may have "served a jail sentence for some misdemeanor".[33]
On August 12, 1925, Elizabeth Towers, a daughter of Oliver Bixby, told theBoston Herald that her grandmother had "great sympathy for the South" and that her mother recalled that Bixby had been "highly indignant" about the letter with "little good to say of President Lincoln".[34][35] In 1949, Towers' nephew, Arthur March Bixby, claimed that Lydia Bixby had moved to Massachusetts fromRichmond, Virginia;[36] though this assertion is contradicted by contemporary records which list her birthplace asRhode Island.[c][4]

The fate of the original letter given to Bixby is unknown. William A. Bixby, a son of Oliver, toldThe New York Times in an August 9, 1925, interview that he did not know what happened to the letter after his grandmother received it, though he doubted it still survived.[37] A few days later, William's sister, Elizabeth told theBoston Herald that she also did not know the letter's fate but speculated Bixby may have torn it up, resenting that it incorrectly said five of her sons had been killed.[35] William's son, Arthur March Bixby, told theNew York Sun in 1949 that he recalled his father telling him that she had angrily destroyed the letter after receiving it.[38][39]
In the early 20th century, it was sometimes claimed that the original letter could be found on display atBrasenose College at theUniversity of Oxford along with other great works in theEnglish language. Lincoln scholarF. Lauriston Bullard investigated this claim in 1925, discovering that it was untrue and the college had never heard of the Bixby letter.[40]


Christie's auction house receives many supposed original Bixby letters every year,[41] including copies of a lithographic facsimile of the letter in widespread circulation. These first appeared in 1891, whenNew York City print dealer Michael F. Tobin applied for acopyright to sell souvenir copies of the letter with an engraving of Lincoln byJohn Chester Buttre for $2 each.[42][43] Soon, Huber's Museum, adime museum inManhattan, began displaying a copy, "stained by coffee and exposure", of Tobin's facsimile as "the original Bixby letter" and selling their own copies for $1 each.[44][45]
Charles Hamilton, anautograph dealer and handwriting expert, examined the Tobin facsimile; concluding it had been copied from a poorly executedforgery originally written in pencil and retraced in ink to imitate Lincoln's handwriting, calling it "halting and awkward and makes his forceful hand appear like a child's scrawl".[46]
Tobin's facsimile also errs when compared to the original text of the letter published in Boston newspapers; adding thesalutation "To Mrs Bixby, Boston Mass", misspelling the word "assuage" as "assauge", omitting the word "to" after the word "tendering", changing the plural "words" into "word", not capitalizing the words "freedom" and "republic", missing the recipient "Mrs. Bixby" on the bottom left, and combining the original three paragraphs into one.[47][48] Huber's Museum corrected the spelling of "assuage" in their version of the facsimile.[49]

Scholars have debated whether the Bixby letter was written by Lincoln himself or by his assistantassistant private secretary,John Hay.[50] November 1864 was a busy month for Lincoln, possibly forcing him to delegate the task to Hay.[39]
Second- and third-hand recollections of acquaintances suggest Hay may have claimed to others that he wrote it,[51] but his children could not recall him ever mentioning composing the letter.[52] Writing toWilliam E. Chandler in 1904, Hay said "the letter of Mr. Lincoln to Mrs. Bixby is genuine",[53] but he may only have been referring to its text.[54] In a 1917 letter to historianIsaac Markens,Robert Todd Lincoln said Hay had told him that he did not have "any special knowledge of the letter at the time" it was written.[55][56]
HistorianMichael Burlingame, who believes Hay is the author, has pointed out that Hay'sscrapbooks have two newspaper clippings of the letter while largely containing Hay's own writing.[57] However, they also contain material written by Lincoln, including theGettysburg Address and theSecond Inaugural.[50]
Scholars favoring Lincoln's authorship, includingEdward Steers and Jason Emerson, note that the Gettysburg Address and theFarewell Address are similar examples of Lincoln's highly regarded style.[50][58] Other scholars, such as Burlingame, have countered that Hay wrote pieces that compare favorably to the Bixby letter and note words and phrases in the letter that appear more frequently in Hay's writings than those of Lincoln.[59] For instance, Burlingame notes the wordbeguile appears numerous times in the works of Hay and the phraseI cannot refrain from tendering is used by Hay in an 1864 letter toQuincy Gillmore, but neither appears once in the other collected works of Lincoln.[60] However, the phraseI cannot refrain from is used by Lincoln in an 1859 letter toSalmon P. Chase.[61]
In 1988, at the request of investigatorJoe Nickell,University of Kentucky professor of English Jean G. Pival studied the vocabulary, syntax, and other stylistic characteristics of the letter and concluded that it more closely resembled Lincoln's style of writing than Hay's.[62][63]
A computer analysis method, developed to address the difficulty in attribution of shorter texts, used in a 2018 study by researchers atAston University's Centre for Forensic Linguistics identified Hay as the letter's author.[64]

The letter's passage "the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of freedom" is inscribed on the base of the statue ofLady Columbia at theNational Memorial Cemetery of the Pacific inHawaii.[65]
Discussions on the topic of siblings dying in war have frequently mentioned the letter; such as theSullivan brothers, theNiland brothers, theBorgstrom brothers, and theSole Survivor Policy of theUnited States military.[66]
In the 1998 war filmSaving Private Ryan, GeneralGeorge Marshall (played byHarve Presnell) reads the Bixby letter to his officers before giving the orderto find and send home Private James Francis Ryan after Ryan's three brothers died in battle, setting in motion the eponymous story of the film. In a voiceover near the end of the film, Marshall quotes the Bixby letter in a letter to Mrs. Ryan.[67]
On September 11, 2011, former U.S. PresidentGeorge W. Bush read the Bixby letter during the memorial ceremony at theWorld Trade Center site on the tenth anniversary of theSeptember 11 attacks.[68]
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