
InGreek mythology, QueenArete (/əˈriːtiː/;[1]Ancient Greek:Ἀρήτη means "she who is prayed for") ofScheria was the wife ofAlcinous and mother ofNausicaa andLaodamas.
Arete was the daughter ofRhexenor. She was a descendant ofPoseidon, who, making love toPeriboea, begotNausithous, who in turn had two sons, Rhexenor, her father andAlcinous, her uncle and later on, her husband. Her name appears to be associated with the Ionic noun ἀρητή, meaning "sacred", "cursed" or "prayed." Some sources claim that it means "righteous", while others connect it withAres, the Greek god of war.
Arete was also depicted as an intelligent and generous hostess byApollonius in Book 4 of theArgonautica, where he recounts the story ofJason andMedea.
When theArgonauts arrived at the island, Arete and her husband received them and Medea hospitably. TheColchians arrived soon after in pursuit of Medea and demanded to take her back to face punishment for the death of her father,Aeëtes. Medea appealed to Arete, and Arete in turn appealed to her husband to grant mercy to Medea. When Alcinous compromised with the declaration, "If she be yet a maid I decree that they carry her back to her father; but if she shares a husband's bed, I will not separate her from her lord; nor, if she bear a child beneath her breast, will I give it up to an enemy,"[2] Arete went to Jason and Medea in the night and told them what to do so that Medea's life would be spared. Through her efforts, the two were wed and the Colchians were forced to return to their homeland without Medea.[3]
In theOdyssey, Arete appears as a noble and active superintendent of the household of her husband. WhenOdysseus arrived in Scheria, he appealed first to Arete for reception and protection, and she treated him hospitably.[4] He did so onNausicaa andAthena's instructions, the goddess having described Arete thus:
Her Alcinous made his wife, and honored her as no other woman on earth is honored, of all those who in these days direct their households in subjection to their husbands; so heartily is she honored, and has ever been, by her children and by Alcinous himself and by the people, who look upon her as upon a goddess, and greet her as she goes through the city. For she of herself is no wise lacking in good understanding, and for the women to whom she has good will she makes an end of strife even among their husbands.[5]