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Anaffair is a relationship typically between two people, one or both of whom are either married or in a long-termmonogamous or emotionally-exclusive relationship with someone else. The affair can be solely sexual, solely physical, solely emotional, or a combination of these.
The relationship is commonly concealed and is generally understood to violate the exclusivity expectations of the primary partnership. The partner outside the primary relationship in an affair is sometimes called a "paramour". Affairs are often emotionally lopsided in that paramour will be the only one to heavily invest themselves into the affair.
A fling usually refers to a brief or casual romantic/sexual involvement, whereas an affair is more often ongoing.
A romantic affair, also called an affair of the heart, is an emotional or sexual relationship between two people without expectations of a formal partnership.
The termaffair may also describe part of an agreement within anopen marriage or open relationship, such asswinging,dating, orpolyamory, in which some forms ofsex with one's non-primary partner(s) are permitted and other forms are not. Participants in open relationships, including unmarried couples and polyamorous families, may consider sanctioned affairs the norm, but when a non-sanctioned affair occurs, it is described asinfidelity and maybe experienced asadultery, or abetrayal both oftrust andintegrity, even though to most people it would not be considered illicit.
When romantic affairs lack both overt and covert sexual behavior, yet exhibit intense or enduring emotional intimacy, it may also be referred to as anemotional affair,platonic love, or aromantic friendship.
Extramarital affairs are relationships outside ofmarriage where an illicitromantic orsexual relationship or aromantic friendship orpassionate attachment occurs.[1]
An affair can continue in one form or another for years, even as one of the partners in that affair passes through marriage, divorce, and remarriage. This could be considered the primary relationship, with the marriage secondary to it. Several people claim the reason for an extramarital affair is their unsuccessful marriage where both spouses fail to please each other. Dissatisfaction, low self-esteem, desire for adventure, and impulse are also major motivating factors of romantic affairs.[2] This may be serial polygamy or otherforms of nonmonogamy.[3]
Individuals having affairs with married men or women can be prosecuted for adultery in some jurisdictions and can be sued by the jilted spouses in others, or named as 'co-respondents' in divorce proceedings. As of 2009, eight U.S. states permitted suchalienation of affections lawsuits.[4] Affairs with the consent of their significant others may not be considered infidelity or adultery.[citation needed]
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